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-Unbearable anxiety -Low self-worth -Zero confidence -Attempts to make friends don't work out -UNBEARABLE lonliness -Obsessive negative thoughts -Mental exhausion everyday -No interests/hobbies -No pleasure in sex (EVER) due to anxiety -Too nervous to stand up to co-workers -Extreme envy of...

I looked up the word Malajusted to get a clear definition of the word as I suffer from SAD, depression, and frequent suicidal fantasies. And to my pleasent suprise I saw a little cartoon man smiling madly in a straight-jacket next to the description :mad:. I immediately told them how insensitive...

I've read posts on here over time from people over 40 who mention that they have extra challenges with SA that younger people don't have to deal with. Being in my 30s I was wondering what those extra challenges are. Really interested in knowing what other difficulties I may encounter in the...

How do you go about meeting a gay guy (for dating) if you're only attracted to the "masculine" types? The feminine ones are easy to spot, but the others just blend in with straight guys so well and I find myself never knowing who's who. The only gay bar we have in the city has almost all...

How many here believe you'll eventually die by your own hand? I believe I will.

I'm 32 male and starting to get the nerve to meet with guys and trying to date and form relationships. But I feel like I'm getting too old for the age I'm attracted to. I'm attracted to roughly 23-35 year olds. I go on dating sites all the time and many young guys see 35 and over as too old. I'm...

I can't connect with anyone it seems. I have NO interest in anything anymore. No hobbies, nothing. How can I look forward to meeting someone when I know we'll have nothing in common. Ever. Death looks better everyday.

Don't have the will to live anymore. I'm 32, can't connect deeply with people, self-conscious walking down the street, feel inferior around everyone, have suicidal thoughts all the time, and sleep just to escape this emotional torture I'm feeling daily. People always say "oh don't do it, you...

I've been making a few friends recently but feel I don't have enough in common with them to make it last. We just go to a movie, maybe eat out and that's about it. There's no "magic" or anything; no deep conversations. I feel kind of lack-luster when I'm with them even though it beats the old...

I don't see the point in owning one because I have almost nobody to call. Still, I dread when people ask me if I own one because I hate that look you get...like you're not from Earth. It annoys me that the average person thinks that EVERYONE must own a cell phone because EVERYONE has oodles of...

I went by myself, and amazingly enough I wasn't that self-conscious. Spent 3 hours there. Didn't have the courage to dance though (especially by myself). I was a little dissapointed that I never spoke to anyone. It's difficult to see everyone talking to everyone else and you feel like you're the...

We all know that social phobics have irrational thoughts about themselves and the world, but have you ever had any of these thoughts turn out to be not so irrational? When I worked in a kitchen a number of years ago, we had to wear a ball cap at all times (in place of hair nets). I always wore...

List the saddest instrumental music (no words sung) you've heard. Want to download them. Mine are: "A Day Without Rain" Enya "Crucified Woman" Cannibal Holocaust soundtrack "Ruined Landscape" Neverending Story soundtrack "The Sun In The Stream" Enya Main Theme from Dressed To Kill soundtrack...

I've become an almost chronic blusher until my therapist sent me the following information to look over. Nothing earth shattering, just a different way of thinking. "What happens to you does not, by itself, cause how you feel or what you do. People do not make you angry. You make yourself...

I've become an almost chronic blusher until my therapist sent me the following information to look over. Nothing earth shattering, just a different way of thinking. "What happens to you does not, by itself, cause how you feel or what you do. People do not make you angry. You make yourself...

Anyone from the Halifax area that want to chat?

I've never kissed another human being on the mouth...ever...and I'm almost 32. Anyone relate?

If so, I would love to chat. I'm too intimidated to meet "normal" people who might not understand my sp, so I find myself being my own company for the most part and I'm very friendly. Please send an e-mail if you're from the area or just respond here.