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    what's the point?

    do you ever find yourself in the middle of expressing your feelings to someone and you just stop and can't help but think WTF is the point? WHY am i talking about this? nothing ever changes anyway. i can have rainbows and sunshine shooting out of my butt and preach positivity and enlightenment...
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    A song that made me think of you

    I was listening to this song on my way to work this morning. It made me think of many of you so I thought I'd share these are just partial lyrics but I attached the link if anyone wants to hear the whole song. You can't imagine all the times that I tried To uncover the source of the tears that...
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    The blush and stutter

    just wanted to share a little thing that happened to me today... I went to get some green tea at the coffee/tea shop down the street. Today happens to be a dress up day for me...heels,skirt,nice shirt. So I'm waiting for my tea when a woman walks up to me and starts giving profuse compliments...
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    Tired of pretending

    I realized during my mini break that I'm sick of pretending I'm like everyone else. I'm tired of forcing myself to be cheery,smiley,social,etc... I was at a music festival and everyone around me was so free with themselves...they danced like no one was watching and seemed to be having such an...
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    Living in the past

    After my divorce I did the obligatory "soul searching" thing. I didn't get much out of it lol But I did realize one important thing about myself that i needed to fix. I was constantly living in the past. Holding on to regrets,resentment,bitterness,etc. constantly torturing myself by...
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    So hard to take compliments

    Why do you think it's hard for many of us to accept a compliment? I personally have trouble just accepting it as how the person really feels without that annoying inner voice saying, "they're just being nice." or "they just want something from you so they're being nice." It's SO hard to...
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    Strange Girl

    I overheard one of my employees whispering to another about me. "I don't understand why one minute she's so warm and caring then the next she's cold and standoffish. She's so strange." Yeah.I AM strange. And what's wrong with that? I don't expect the world to be certain way to cater to me so...
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    Cool hats or crazy hair

    A lot of us might use hats to kinda shield us from the world. I know i use hats and big sunglasses to shield myself...along with my music and earbuds. So i thought it would be fun to post our cool hats to honor them for shielding us from unpleasant things. I love seeing crazy hair too so i...
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    Voices

    When you read posts here, do you assign each person their own individual voice in your head? Since most of us have never heard each other talk, we'd have to either make a voice up or use a voice we've heard before. i really hope i'm not the only one who does this. that would make me feel like...
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    here are some of my pictures:)

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    9yrs old and he wants to die.

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    what IS life...really?

    We spend so much time focusing on what we "should" be doing or how we "should" be living our lives. But what IS life?? Why does the whole phrase Live Your Life have to mean load up on friends and social gatherings,have a successful career,live on your own,etc...? Who says that is the way to...
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    The dreaded weekend

    I love the weekend...and i hate it. I deleted the original content of the thread bc i wanted to just use this space to vent stuff...i don't want it to be focused on one topic. kinda dumb but whatever. im just going to type...
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    what's your favorite?

    What is your favorite part of being a woman? how can you use it to make you stronger when dealing with people and situations? Same thing for guys...what's your favorite aspect of it? can you use it to improve yourself? My favorite part of being a woman is having it socially acceptable to...
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    What do we want ladies?

    I want to know what we want in love. Do you think SA plays a role in your needs when it comes to love? I prefer someone who shares EVERYTHING about themselves with me without holding back just because they're afraid of being judged or disliked. I need honesty. i need someone who gives me...
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    People just can't stand me

    Seriously. My husband insisted that i go to a neighborhood party with him (which is great for him bc he always talks to all the nosey bastards in our neighborhood while i avoid them like their zombies or something...) anyway, we're at this party and people smile at me and i smile back.great...
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    Just keep hitting me til i fall.

    I really feel like life's punching bag right now. Have you ever had one of those weeks where everything piles onto your back and you get so deeply depressed you don't want to wake up? Among many other things... my half sister downloaded pics of her wedding. Amazingly our father was there to...
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    What do you think about before you sleep?

    I have a terrible time falling asleep at night. It takes me at least 30 mins even though i'm usually exhausted by the time i'm ready for bed. My mind stay too busy I think. I think about stupid stuff. I think about when I was a kid, what I'm going to take for lunch the next day, whether or...
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    Talking to myself

    nevermind.
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    What does your username mean?

    What does it mean? How did you come up with it? :) This has probably been asked before but I am curious and want to know.
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