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  1. Hottie

    "The Process" we are on...

    Hey peeps :) So if you read my last post you will know that i have been making improvments in my life. If you would like to read it here it is: http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/where-im-at-and-maybe-this-can-help-you-33662/ There are a few tip in there that might help you... Well, im keeping...
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    Where im at and maybe this can help you :)

    Hi all :) havnt been on in quite a while. hope you are all well and hanging in there! I just wanted to say that within the last few weeks i have seen some HUGE improvments in my life. Still struggling of course but i dont be focusing on the struggle anymore...i focus on the positives. I want...
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    I dont think i can do this...

    I dunno what to do. I seen a psychairtrist yesterday and she wants me to start on new meds. I dont mind this bit, but the bit i dont like is she told me i cannot drink. What the high hell am i going to do? I have used this coping mechanism for several years and to suddenly expect me to stop...
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    Male or female professionals?

    Hey peeps! What is you opinion on this? I was told something by my mother (as crazy as she is!) and it kinda made sence to me. Female theripsts/counsellors, they dive into your emotions and feelings and get wrapped up in them, where as males try to get the job done. What do you this of this...
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    Getting out of bed

    I find it so hard to get out of bed sometimes that i will actully allow myself to go hungry. Sometimes it can lead to me being physically not able to eat due to over-hunger and feeling sick. But if i have nothing to do for the day, do i have to get up? I know that i need something to motivate...
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    Feeling suicidal or want to help someone

    I had a suicide prevention awareness programme today. It was from 10.00am to 1.30pm. My god was it intence and my anxiety was sky high due to this being a topic close to home. Suicide is a topic that plays on my mind so it was quite difficult to have sat thru it, but i did and now hold a...
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    Addiction Counselling

    I am starting this thread as i am getting serious about getting of drugs. I am doing this to motivate me and also it may help someone who is in a similar situation. I will also be writing up the odd tips i have been given from my counselling sessions for anxiety too. I always knew that my last...
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    Help please, my auntie is missing

    **** **** ****, my auntie has been missing since friday. This is also my godmother and i dont know what to do. She lives northside and i live southside so getting to her is difficult. I dont know what i can do. I have only just been told tihs. She is not answering her mobile or house phone and...
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    My personal poetry

    deleted.... sorry i lost the bottle to post things up
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    the one thing that helps me has to stop

    Last week i have realised i am in the late stages of alcoholism. Me? How? Well, my love for partying is out the window now. The one thing i love to do and be without SA, is party. If i have to give up drinking, thats it, my life is officially over. Went to Amsterdam the weekend just gone for my...
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    Worry worry worry and anticpation

    Uggghh i am not olooking forward to a few hours htime. I have to meet with the other volunteers (most i have never met) and sit there and have a drink with them. I could stand the anxiety symptoms but i am afraid i will have a blushing attack wich just makes me want to die inside when it...
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    Would it help?

    Hi, Okay for those who have been in therapy...we sit in a chair and talk, right? Does anyone feel that, if the counsellor/theripst was to go outside with us it would make a difference? Go out side and guide us through a situation(s)? Or has this ever happened for anybody?
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    journaling

    Hey, Anyone know a free online site where you can journal privetly? I have been asked by someone for it specifically to be private... Thanks :)
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    what a start to the day

    Ohhhh s**t!! I just said yes to attend something that will create HUGE anxiety for me. I will have to sit in a class with other volunteers *ahhhhh* i havnt sat in a class in a year. I suppose it will be good for me if im thinking of going back to college though *silently screaming inside*...
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    Paronioa or reality? How can i tell?

    how can i tell the difference, from something that i think actully happened or just me being paroniod? Something happened on saturday night and i am only after thinking about it now. I dont know if what i was hearing was just me being paroniod or not. I know SA can add to paronioa and so can...
  16. Hottie

    Only the morning and already hate it

    If you dont want to read a depressing thread then steer clear and dont read this because it has no happiness in it what so ever...sorry Im having a s**t day today. I dont know if its from thrusday day/night and friday morning sessioning........but since waking up, whatever im feeling i dont...
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    Will i ever?

    i didnt stick to my plan. i was ment to write stuff down for my new counsellor and give them to her but i couldnt find the courage to hand it to her... my plan b was to ask her could i e-mail her....but again didnt have to courage folr that either. Im begining to wonder will i ever be able to...
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    Want to say somehting

    Hi, Its so fustrating when you want to say something but dont know how to. ... Im finding it difficult to say some of the things that are in my mind to my new counsellor. I really want to let some stuff out but i cant physically bring up the topics i want to talk about. I am ashamed of some...
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    Mastering breathing techniques

    Hi, Does anyone have any deep breathing techniques that they would like to share? Sometimes i feel that im not doing the breathing techniques properly. I find when im at home, alone, i can bring myself to relax by breathing deeply with relaxation. When im outside or around people i must be not...
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    Saying the wrong thing at the wrong time

    OH NO... I just said the wrong thing to one family member of my next door neighbours. I was at a wake just ther and my nerves are gone. I cant deal with the intensity of things like that. Just looking at her in the coffin shook me up. I had the shakes and went over to her daughter and said...
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