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    How to reintegrate into society

    It just feels hopeless... I haven't done anything in the last 5 years. I've been completely stuck. I haven't changed at all. I haven't made new friends, I haven't had an SO, I haven't gotten a job.... I honestly don't know where time has gone. I want to reintegrate into society but how? No...
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    Not anxious, just stupid...

    I'm not even afraid of people anymore but I am afraid of how dumb I must sound. I know nothing about anything and if I do know something, I usually **** up the facts. It's just ridiculous. Why can't I remember ****. Why can't I speak without ****ing up the words? :kickingmyself:
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    I dunno..

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    Me... me... me...

    :thumbdown: Hung out with a friend I hadn't seen for over a year yesterday. The whole time he talked about himself. I would try and get a word in and then the next thing I know, it's back to him. I haven't seen you for over a year and you don't care at all about what I've been up to? I was...
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    Too many extroverts on POF

    So many intimidating extroverts on POF. They're all like "you only live once", "enjoying life", "love to hang out with friends and go clubbing". Where are the introverted shy girls? All I want is a shy girl who has self doubts but I've only found one like that on their. I fantasize finding...
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    Higher chance of being scrutinized because of looks

    This is what holds me back the most! I'm too scared of being scrutinized because of my feminine physique. I just don't know how to overcome it. How do you overcome something that is so obvious to others? I thought I had bdd but you can't be diagnosed with bdd if the "perceived" flaw is an...
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    Scared. No hope.

    I'm scared. I feel like overcoming this is impossible. I used to think that I was just in a rut but now I think it's something more than that. I've been chosing not to be social for longer than I first thought. I thought this bull **** started at the end of highschool but now I see it goes...
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    Compassion and Self Love

    This is what you people need to work on. Everyone is like you, they're just in different wrapping. You are your self by chance just like other people are their selves by chance. That's why compassion needs to be shown to every human (and animal) you encounter even if they don't show it back...
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    Do you hate your body?

    Do you hate your body or the way clothes fit on you?
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    When I go to any social event...

    I feel like the ugliest, stupidest, least approachable, least interesting, and least memorable person there. I don't see why anyone would want to talk to me and sometimes these thoughts are justified with the way others treat me (i.e. not being approached by anyone). That's why I hide in my...
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    I need help with an old friend that's trying to get back in my life

    Copy and pasted from yahoo answers, which I deem an unusable service now. This situation would be awkward for someone without social phobia but with social phobia it is VERY stressful. Any advice, relating, or stories are welcomed. So basically I'm in my early 20s and a huge homebody (no hate...
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    Hated by many loved by few

    Do you ever feel like no matter how you act people hate you? I used to be rather talkative, very weird, and really happy in the first half of highschool. I had friends and a lot of aquaintances but at the same time I had a lot of people who openly hated me. Eventually it got to me and it even...
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    Guys with girly hips?

    Is there anyone else on this forum with this problem? It is literally ruining me. I'm skinny and it isn't fat just straight up bone structure. I used to think I had klinefelter's syndrome because of them but I'm 99% sure I don't. I've put on some muscle but I still know that this won't...
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    Person from the past texted me... Why?

    Alright so I'm trying to figure this out and was wondering if anyone could give me a reason why someone would do this... Okay so I got a text from a person from highschool who I was not very close with but perhaps we were friends in like gr 10-11. I haven't talked to the guy since 1.5 years ago...
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    When is it the right time to leave?

    I have this problem where if I am going to a friend's place I have no idea when it is appropriate to leave. There has been more than several times this year where I was invited to go to a friend's house/family occasions and reluctantly went. While there, I would end up feeling really...
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    Roaarrrr!

    I know this is random but I gotta tell someone... I'm extremely frustrated because my dad is down stairs watching sexTV and I'm upstairs wanting to get some food cuz I'm starving but am to afraid to go down stairs and have a really awkward moment... grrrr!!!!!! laugh at my frustration if you...
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    My Arch-nemesis: Wedding Receptions

    In the last month I have had the unfortunate pleasure of going to 2 weddings (one for my 2nd cousin and the other for my 1st cousin). The first wedding reception was terrible. At 10:50 I was ready to leave and went to talk to my mom about me leaving and when this happened I had a jerk who...
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    Friend Help...

    So now a days I only have one friend that I see regularly and he is starting to make me very angry. Every like 2 or 3 days he will call my house and ask if I want to hang out... Sometimes I don't answer the phone because I don't want to hang out with him, other times I'll make up a really lame...
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    Afraid To Change?

    Is anyone afraid to change their SA ways to the point where they tell themselves they don't want to change and are content with the life they live (a life of solitude)? Just wondering...
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    Animal Friends!

    I was surprised to not see a thread already on this sooooo I figured I'd make one :P. Post your pics of your pets with their names and a lil description about them if you want. :) ty.
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