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    Women checking me out

    I have been dating my girlfriend for about 2 months. Since it has gotten more serious (holding hands, arms around each other), I have noticed a lot of women making eye contact and smiling at me when we are out together. This is opposed to when I am alone, when women never make eye contact with...
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    Second Date Ideas?

    Just went on a first date with a girl, we went out for a few drinks. She seems cool and open minded, was wondering if anyone has any good ideas for a second date? Theres nothing she mentioned she really loves to do, shes pretty busy with school and work. Would dinner and a movie or something be...
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    Social Anxiety: Are We Victims or Creators?

    I was hoping to get some thoughts on "social anxiety" as you see it. It seems that the majority of people here view themselves as victims of a "disease" or "disorder" (there are a lot of posts along the lines of "if i didnt have SA, then this or that would be different). Yet I have heard many...
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    shy guys with girls

    Have you guys ever noticed that often when a girl gives you an opportunity to say something to her and you hold back, she basically stops taking you seriously? I was at this concert the other night and I went up to the bar and the girl next to me gave me a smile. I smiled back but didnt say...
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    girls girls girls

    I don't know why I post this other than the fact that I'm feeling frustrated and lonely. Why is it that I'm so bad with girls? I'm not a wreck to look at, I'm a real nice guy, I only have the best intentions (a lasting relationship) and people tell me that I'm very sweet and charming. And yet...
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    10 thinks that make me awesome

    here are 10 things that make me awesome. i think that everyone should make this list about themselves and post it. 1) I'm nice, sensitive, caring, and understanding 2) I'm a good listener 3) I'm tolerant of all races, religions, nationalities, everything! 4) I'm not a Yankees fan (go braves!)...
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    the importance of a good smile

    one thing that screws me over time and time again is my nervous body language and shifty eye contact, especially around the people i find attractive. i dont think i can put into words how much i have missed out because of my inability to lock eyes with someone and smile at them. if having SA has...
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    optimistic or pessimistic?

    Hey guys, I've been on here for about a month or so, and I'm noticing that there are (at the very least) 2 kinds of people that chat and make posts here: the ones who are optimistic about their chances to improve themselves in the future, and the ones who are pessimistic and don't think they can...
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