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  1. TooShyShy

    Guys..ever drive past a girls house you like?

    If so, what do you get out of it? What would be the purpose for a guy with social anxiety especially if you run the risk of being caught? And how would you feel if she did catch you driving down her street one Saturday afternoon? She is in a car as well, pulling out of her drive way and you...
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    Can you call/text/email a girl you are interested in?

    Would you become anxious, scared, etc. if a girl you know and are attracted to ALOT gave you her phone number or email address? If so..why if SHE initiated? Would you assume immediately she wanted you to get intouch with her and that she liked you if she gave these to you? Is one easier...
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    Can anyone relate?

    I thought this was really interesting and sounds like what has been happening to me (me being the girl in the ''staring'' scenario;) Tell me what you all think..do you experience this ever..men or women? Tuesday, June 8, 2010 Love Shyness - Beauty and the love-shy This is part of a series...
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    How do love shy/extremely shy men act when they see an attractive girl with...

    a form fitting outfit (maybe a shirt with a little cleavage showing) or short skirt or tight capris..is it any different for a man who IS NOT love shy or afraid of women in any way? If he's not use to seeing women up close like that would it bother him more? I am asking bcuz this seems to...
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    Can a man be ''love shy'' technically if he is only this way with ONE girl?

    If he has had girlfriends, sex, etc. but just can't get his sh*t together around you; stares alot, completely shy, anxious, scared..is that possible for someone who is truly love-shy??? I assumed love-shyness is an inability to be with ALL WOMEN you find attractive or think of in a...
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    Staring at her from afar..for long periods of time?????

    What goes through a guys mind when he stares at a girl through a window or across the room..or even in a cafeteria with many other people around..just staring..for long periods of time..daily..at work..why do this when you can speak with her any time you want face to face :confused: Also..he...
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    Who says ''i love you'' first?

    I am wondering when (past or present relationships) it happened for all of you and who said I LOVE YOU first..was it you or your partner..and how many weeks/months did it take? All my friends told me their boyfriends/hubbys all said it first..some after a few weeks, others after a few months...
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    The thing you avoid is the thing you want most in the world?

    Is it safe to assume that the things you avoid; women, intimacy, close physical contact is something you crave desperately but don't have the ability (panic, anxiousness, shyness, etc.) to make it happen? I assume the IDEA of it or her is what makes you anxious (scared) and want to avoid without...
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    Male/Female virgins over the age of 30

    Anyone here in their 30's and still virgins? If so....why? Is it lack of interest or attraction to anyone, you're waiting for a specific person/situation, you have severe anxiety and fear--and if so do you know why, or is it just bad luck possibly? Thanks :D
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    Taurus Men

    How would you describe yourself? What traits do you have that make you (possibly) more prone to social anxiety, avoident disorder or love shyness? Thanks!
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    Anyone ''crushing'' on someone in real life? (5 questions for you to answer)

    Is there someone you know and are attracted to in your real life? If so, i have a few questions for you to answer :) 1) Do you interact with this person, talk to, work with, etc? 2) For how long have you felt this way about them? 3) What are the circumstances surrounding the situation and/or...
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    Can a man be SO attracted to a woman that he is actually afraid of her?

    He looks extremely afraid most of the time; gets very uncomfortable & nervous around her....and jumpy, looks scared when she enters a room and he looks like he wants to ''disappear'', he can't smile when they talk to one another, ''prepares'' himself before speaking to her, looks as if HE has...
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    Is ALL sexual contact out of the question for men with SA?

    Even going to strip club? What about having a lap dance with an attractive female? Would you need to be drinking to enjoy it? Do you even have the urge to see a girl dance, naked...would you want to touch her? And would you like her to touch you (or do anything else) and can you be...
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    Does exposure or desensitizing really work? If so, how long does it take-please share

    I've heard so much about desensitizing yourself or using the ''exposure'' method..does that really work???? Has it worked for anyone? And if so please explain the situation you overcame :D
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    Do people w/APD have the ability 2 give someone a chance, to date..fall in love?

    Should a person just give up completely? Is there any way someone who suffers from this (in a big way) can let their gaurd down. open up, give their trust...maybe even fall in love, etc. any success stories out there? What do you do when you KNOW the person is attracted to you (yet a shy...
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    How jealous of a person are you?

    When you see a girl/guy you really like talking to someone else, how does it make you feel deep down inside? When you see others around you dating, falling in love, getting married, having a baby, etc. what do you think to yourself? What would you do, if anything to change it..to be like...
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    Missed Opportunities in life

    What about missed opportunity with love..womenor men, does it affect you down the road, having had the chance but pushing the person away...do you still think about her/him years later? Any regrets?
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    Fantasizing about the opposite sex..does that take the place of real life love?

    Can that be enough for the rest of your life..fantasizing about the person you want, but are to afraid to be with? Does the fantasy become obsessive ever?
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    Why do love-shy men NOT want to show they like/love a woman?

    Or at least have some feelings or an attraction for her? Why hide your feelings and not acknowledge them? What is the worry in the girl knowing this? Why hold back? Is it better to live this way and watch, stare, fantasize about her from afar and be sad and lonely rather than let the girl know...
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