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  1. Pacific_Loner

    I want to move out of the city

    Good question, I ask myself the same. I did move to a village once, I hated it, I went back to the city where I can be anonymous and don't have to be part of a community. I've been contemplating the idea again lately, I even explored a new area about 1 or 2 hours away from the city, and realized...
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    Sociopaths

    You've reach the limits of my english capacities a couple of times in that post so I had to read it more that once. I think I get what you mean when you say it's easy to fall into the trap of thinking your thoughts are worth sharing. I think I fall into the opposite trap though. I usually delete...
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    Sociopaths

    Your posts are always interesting and insightful vj so don't keep yourself from posting because someone disagree with you or because you're unsure about your words. Disagreement can make a conversation take an interesting new path that it wouldn't have taken otherwise, and so does incomplete ideas.
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    Sociopaths

    I see I'm not the only one feeling that way. Well, about your friend who has very non-pc views, I think there is as much opinions as there is shades and colors in this world and that would be very naive of each of us to think that our personal opinion is the right one. So I don't care that...
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    Sociopaths

    Ok I'll admit I'm in a very mysanthropic time of my life, but still, humankind is NOT a great specie. Not compared to what it could be. I might be a sociopath magnet because I look naive, but to me it seems that every man who approaches me just want something from me and will lie and manipulate...
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    How are you feeling?

    I think it's a natural feeling that most people feel. That is why they say that human is a social animal. And that I'm clearly not human. Just kidding. It's probably better if you have a wide enough range of acquaintance or friends that you can call to hang out with or do activities in order to...
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    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    Well I admit I've been over-working in the last weeks but that's because I had to do a course at the same time. I rarely go as far as cutting on sleep though. When I get to the point where the bunny is, I just go to sleep even if I'm not done. But of course I had to cut all my exercise time and...
  8. Pacific_Loner

    Constant dressing down on Facebook

    Social media is toxic and time consuming, if it makes you unhappy I would suggest to just stop using it
  9. Pacific_Loner

    Anxiety at work

    I think most people here tend to assume, most of the time, that if there is a relationship or communication issue, they are the problem. But other people have their problems too and it's astonishing, when you take a good look around you, how many people have no or little control over their...
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    Social Anxiety Memes

    Isn't it normal behavior?
  11. Pacific_Loner

    How are you feeling?

    Good point, and also in 1 year you'll have more experience (and maybe a little more confidence) and you can say that you've realized that you could get more elsewhere but of course you would prefere to stay with them if they were decent enough to give you what you deserve. I don't know about...
  12. Pacific_Loner

    How are you feeling?

    I have been feeling the same lately, I find that yoga helps, I don't know if it would help you too. What also helps me is to try to have an hour per day where I can just listen to very calm music and breath, or take a walk, (or do yoga), and make a conscious effort to shut down all the worries...
  13. Pacific_Loner

    I am so depressed

    I thank God every day of my life for weekends and I'm an atheist. That gives you an idea how deep is my gratitude
  14. Pacific_Loner

    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    Well the more you tell the more the few months of break that fountain mentioned sound absolutely necessary
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    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    That sounds reasonable.
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    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    Nice! I find that knowing how to fix your own car helps to fix your self-esteem at the same time... And unless this guy is completely obsessed with you (which you should notice), if it didn't work out romantically, maybe friendship is what it was meant to be. I've been in a similar situation...
  17. Pacific_Loner

    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    Hah, yeah I'm pretty far north but not quite enough yet apparently
  18. Pacific_Loner

    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    No I already noticed the hiking trails are infested, I choose stormy days as well, and I go super early, like before sunrise, this way the crowd arrives when I'm on my way back. I've been trying to find a house in the woods. But I have to stay close enough from work since I still have to pay for...
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    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    So I discovered that the woods are infested with humans as well. And they're not nice people. It's hopeless. Oh and to whom it may concern, good luck with the hurricane
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