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  1. SonicMan

    Post your picture thread

    This is me.
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    Am I destined to be alone?

    Today got me thinking about how I seem to only truly be myself when alone. I feel happy alone and no one can see my bad habits. Also my anxiety is gone when I'm on my own. I think I'm a natural loner but I kind of like it that way. Does anyone else feel this way?
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    My life experience of viewing relationships

    Edit: Sorry guys, having a funny moment. I know it's not true. Just seen and heard things that day that got me thinking.
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    Second Life

    Anyone on Second Life? I'm MrCosmic on there. Would be nice to get a bunch of us together on there.
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    How do people get girlfriends/boyfriends so quickly?

    As the title says, how do they do it? They split up with their partner and within 2 weeks are already with someone else. Do people just get with the first person they meet in the street or something? I go out just as much as my friends but don't know how they do it.
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    Why do my hands cause such destruction?

    Why the f*** does everything I touch break? I am so careful all the time. I pick things up and put things down so gently, I drive with so much care of my surroundings. But yet I always mess up somehow. What is the point of being careful when I end up causing more trouble than wreckless...
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    Do people really know what equality is?

    I'm talking about gender here. It's all well and good when people say that both genders should have rights to success (which I agree). What frustrates me is that when it comes down to doing the work, people say "Oh, you're the man, you should do this, or you're the woman, you should do this."...
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    Why do people always take things the wrong way?

    Has anyone else ever struggled with people taking something you do or say the wrong way? Or have you ever taken something the wrong way? I think I've had a bit of this recently and it's hard to deal with but I know time will help.
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    Is she bored of me?

    Hey guys, I'm confused and need help. I have a friend in a group, I was her safety net and the one who befriended her when no one else would. Recently she has cancelled meet ups 4 times out of 5, using various excuses. Then at the Christmas party last night I went over to ask her how things...
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    Clubbing in Bournemouth

    Hi everyone. I have built up enough courage to try going to a bar or nightclub in Bournemouth. Does anyone know of a nice place to go?
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    Social situations and energy

    Does anyone else find that being in a social situation takes all of your energy? I can ride my exercise bike all day if I wanted and have energy to spare, but put me in a group of people and I hardly have enough energy to speak. My throat feels heavy and sore and I just feel drained. After...
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    Hi everyone. Just thought I would introduce myself. I have social phobia and I am really desperate to improve my social skills. I found this forum yesterday and this seems like a great place so I decided to join.