Crash,
You are not psychic, at least I don't think you are. You cannot tell the future, so try to stop yourself from trying to predict it. Take a look at your thought patterns, for example "All girls hate me, all girls don't like me, I already know what every girl will say to me if I ask her out". Crash I'm not lying when I say, just TRY, fake it if you have to, think it right now, say it right now --->"I don't know the future, I don't know what a girl will say to me if I ask her out" . If you change your thoughts to non condemning ones, you'll notice you INSTANTLY feel better.
For instance if you think: "No girl will ever like me for who I am, I'll never find a girl" you'll notice that in a short period of time, you'll start to feel bad, sad, HOPELESS, bereft of hope.
**this thinking is irrational and untrue, it's a lie you create to cause yourself pain.
NOW! Change that around! and ACTIVELY THINK (even if you have to force it, which is likely *i have to a lot of the time) (TRY THIS!!!!) : "I am SURE there are girls out there that would love me for who I am (THIS IS TRUE!! You're lying to yourself when you say there aren't any girls that would like you), if they got to know me and if I opened up and tried to be everything I can be, as a person, as a man"
Now at first, you won't believe yourself, but that's okay, you're so used to lying to yourself, that hearing the truth sounds like a lie. Keep it up and you'll start feeling better, because DEEP DOWN, you know it's true, even if you think it's a lie on the surface.
Think: "I will find a girl someday, I will be patient and use this time without one to work on myself, to prepare myself for a relationship" (Because being in a relationship requires a lot of devotion! You have to learn to love YOURSELF first before you try to love someone else, let me tell you!!!!! If you don't know how to love yourself, it's hard to love someone else, because you DON"T KNOW HOW TO LOVE!! Plus having a relationship requires intimacy.
know that when you chain yourself up with all of those hateful and negative thoughts, you ward off the attention of others. It gives off this scary energy and people shy away from that energy and they follow the happy positive energy where they find it.
Change positively, and you'll become a magnet. Change takes persistence, desire to be all you can be, consistence, and time.