jodiesmitham
Member
Hi all.
I am new here and hoping that I can find some sort of resolution to my problem. All my life (I am 31 now) I have felt anxious, but recently things have been getting worse. I was due to do a presentation a few weeks ago to around 20 of my work colleagues. I started off ok, but then my mind went blank, my face went red, my heart started beating fast and I passed out! I have always been nervous about presentations, but nothing like this. Normally I have bullet points on a piece of paper, but I was looking at the words and they made no sense!
I tried putting it behind me as I was certain that I was just having an off day. However, today at work I had to give feedback about my team to around 10 or so people (again, many of whom are friends) and it started happening again! This time I didn't pass out, but I nearly did and I felt so stupid and embarrassed. Now, I have reasoned with myself that I am not stupid and that people won't think of me any less, but I don't *feel* it. I have now come home in tears and want to leave my job because of it (knowing full well that the problem won't go away). I just don't know what to do. I am now dreading my next weekly update. I'm telling myself not to continue worrying (because that would be a self fulling prophecy) but I just can't stop thinking about it. I've tried writing down my feelings, but I don't seem to feel any better.
My family don't realise how bad it is and I actually contemplated suicide when I couldn't do my presentation a few weeks ago. I feel utterly useless and bad at my job.
Any advice?
I am new here and hoping that I can find some sort of resolution to my problem. All my life (I am 31 now) I have felt anxious, but recently things have been getting worse. I was due to do a presentation a few weeks ago to around 20 of my work colleagues. I started off ok, but then my mind went blank, my face went red, my heart started beating fast and I passed out! I have always been nervous about presentations, but nothing like this. Normally I have bullet points on a piece of paper, but I was looking at the words and they made no sense!
I tried putting it behind me as I was certain that I was just having an off day. However, today at work I had to give feedback about my team to around 10 or so people (again, many of whom are friends) and it started happening again! This time I didn't pass out, but I nearly did and I felt so stupid and embarrassed. Now, I have reasoned with myself that I am not stupid and that people won't think of me any less, but I don't *feel* it. I have now come home in tears and want to leave my job because of it (knowing full well that the problem won't go away). I just don't know what to do. I am now dreading my next weekly update. I'm telling myself not to continue worrying (because that would be a self fulling prophecy) but I just can't stop thinking about it. I've tried writing down my feelings, but I don't seem to feel any better.
My family don't realise how bad it is and I actually contemplated suicide when I couldn't do my presentation a few weeks ago. I feel utterly useless and bad at my job.
Any advice?