PARTY!!!!!

blue

Well-known member
I hate party`s, i dont usually do them as a rule but, my closest friend is having a leaving party , moving to cambridge and i really need to go!!!!
HELP HELP HELP has anyone got any tips!!!!
I pannic about the walking in bit, you know when everyone looks to see who has come in, i pannic so much i carnt smile at people or say hello without having a major lip tremmor and embaressing myself!!!!
has anyone any tips im a nervouse wreck already and its not until tommorow night!!!!..........is there any hope!!!! :roll:
 

blue

Well-known member
Hi yetisbabe! thanks i think i will try and go earlier, god im so nervouse!!!!!! my friend rang this morning to say what time we will be going and god i must have sounded so nervouse!!!! I really want to do it though just to tell myself i can!!!
hello dreamer 13! people do stare dont they, i keep saying that to Ben my (more confident!) other half and he says im just being parranoid!

well wish me luck ill try not to have a nervouse breakdown before i go!!!!
 

Richey

Well-known member
That was a bit harsh foxtrot. blue is feeling anxious about it, its normal so there was no need for that
 

foxtrot

Member
****Edited By Yetisbabe**** This is a support forum. You are entitled to your opinions, but please be more constructive and don't attack the member who posted.
 

Richey

Well-known member
How can you say its disgusting, what do you think SP does to people before they enter a social gathering? Its perfectly normal and this is a forum for open discussion, if you dont like it then dont reply because.. it will help nobody. Why dont you try and help blue out instead of patronising. Your the one who looks like the whiner not blue.
 

Septor

Well-known member
Dont try to over think it blue.You sound ready even if your nervous about it you can do it blue.Just try not to fixate on it,as hard as that is.

Foxtrot chill man just chill.
 

triceratops

Well-known member
I dont wanna cause any trouble but i dont really belive in editing the posts as i belive people are entitled to their own opinions but im not in charge so i cant really say anything (and i was curious to know what foxtrot put)

Party's are pretty hard ive been going them for years but I still feel incomftable sometimes but then I drink a lot and sortof forget.
 

blue

Well-known member
er hello not just a little confused about all the commosion, i take it fox trot thought i was whinging.........well i wasnt im social phobic and thought i could find some consolidation in the people who suffer the same problem i do........i dont know what was said but it has sent my anxiety through the roof so cheers for that foxtrot im so not posting again.
thankyou everyone else for your support the party went fine i focused on my friend it was her evening and we had a really good night!!
i was nervouse about going i havnt done any major social event for a while i just wanted abit of morral support
probably wont ask again though!!!! :cry:
 

Septor

Well-known member
blue said:
er hello not just a little confused about all the commosion, i take it fox trot thought i was whinging.........well i wasnt im social phobic and thought i could find some consolidation in the people who suffer the same problem i do........i dont know what was said but it has sent my anxiety through the roof so cheers for that foxtrot im so not posting again.
thankyou everyone else for your support the party went fine i focused on my friend it was her evening and we had a really good night!!
i was nervouse about going i havnt done any major social event for a while i just wanted abit of morral support
probably wont ask again though!!!! :cry:


I know it sucks when someone acts like that but like yetisbabe don't let that stop you from posting and asking for help any time you want to because there are a lot of people here that want to help and give you support.Foxtrot was just random occurrence that happen to pick your thread and does not reflect the board.
 

foxtrot

Member
Sorry about that,

I was just having a rought night that day, and I was meaning to join this forum after trolling around on it for a week or so. I was just looking to vent but it came out the wrong way and I didn't mean any of it.

Once again I apologize, I hope you managed to have a decent time at the party.
 

Kalima

Well-known member
Hey Blue,

I've been on this site for some time now. I've read hundreds of posts and many of them have people asking for advice or help because of a problem they're having. So there's absolutely NOTHING wrong with you asking for help here. Don't allow what other people think to get you down when we're all here to get help, not put others down. So hang in there buddy and keep u're head up!!!
 

naeun1024

New member
Hi i'm naeun

My name is Naeun Kim.
Kim is family name
I'm a Korean..Nice to meet you.
I'm 14years old and my favorite subject is English.
But i'm not English very well..
:D Hmm can I write a message for korea introduce?
It is about traditional culture..
first kimch is very famous in korea.
It's very spicy and sourish
second korean clothes.
It is very famous and beautifull...etc.,etc
And I think Forigner is very kindly
And have a good time~~ :eek:
 

blue

Well-known member
thankyou foxtrot for appologising :D
it means alot to me, i shouldnt have taken it to heart so much!
we do all have days when we feel angry and hate the world!!! i know that as much as anyone!!!
thankyou everyone for your support. I hate critisism i take it far too personally.....hhhmmmm......i need to work on that one!.........and guess what ive got another party on saturday!!!!!!! :lol:
 
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