Painfully Lonely

whos_that_girl

Active member
I'm am so painfully lonely, I can't stand this anymore. It's basically just me and my cat because I have no friends and only a brother who uses me. I want to be out in the world with a life, but i'm always too scared. I want to volunteer, then I get scared. I want to work, then I get scared. I'm starting to feel very stupid for being so scared and shy all these years, embarassing too. My heart will not be able to take much more of this, I can already tell. ::(:
 

Lorraine Manca

Well-known member
I'm so sorry your feeling that way. I wish I could help. This is going to sound really lame, but for most of my childhood, it was just me and my dog. My dog was put down yesterday because of a bleeding problem. I miss him alot, alot more than i even imagined I would. So you do have something in your life! be grateful for your cat and start adding things one by one into your life and one by one have more things to be grateful for and happy about. Im sorry you feel blue. I get lonely and scared of the little things too.
 
STart reaching out for help, find some support groups in your area. DOnt be afraid, if you really hate being alone and in pain, that should motivate you.
 

Quiet Angel

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*hugs* I'm so sorry to hear that. Positive affirmations could possibly help? Your post made me feel empathetic for you because those words are so similar to mine in mind. Best of luck. You'll be in my thoughts. Feel free to message me anytime.
 
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Ericisme

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I'm am so painfully lonely, I can't stand this anymore. It's basically just me and my cat because I have no friends and only a brother who uses me. I want to be out in the world with a life, but i'm always too scared. I want to volunteer, then I get scared. I want to work, then I get scared. I'm starting to feel very stupid for being so scared and shy all these years, embarassing too. My heart will not be able to take much more of this, I can already tell. ::(:

I know how you feel, it's so horrible. I've been alone for 4 years straight now. No friends, no relationship, nobody to talk to. I don't even talk to my family, a sentence or 2 a day, on average. I'm getting sick of it. I'm alone, yet I HATE being here with these people, I'm sick of them making my life worse. I've been trying so hard to find somebody, so I wouldn't be alone, online.. Yet, nothing. It's like, I'm probably the type that dies alone. All I can do is hope I die alone soon.
 

mmmm

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You were on your way to cal. What happened with that? I totally think you should go for it.
 

oNecoOlazN

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*hugs* I'm so sorry to hear that. Positive affirmations could possibly help? Your post made me feel empathetic for you because those words are so similar to mine in mind. Best of luck. You'll be in my thoughts. Feel free to message me anytime.

Count in me too~

*hugs * you guyz!
 
its the same with me, i feel the very same thing, i want to experince the most boring normal things people do, i dont care if its sittin on packed train or staing at bus stop as long as my face was a normal colour i would do it with the biggest smile ever god the amount of times i have seen people out on the street and said to myself how do they do it? i want a job, some friends, a girlfriend, infact what i want more then anything in the whole world if i was given one wish i'd ask for my red face and SA to go away for ever sure i could ask to be rich or famous or fix a few health problems but no i would'nt if i was normal man i tell i'd be the real person i am behind this wall or armour, so yeah thats all i want.
 

whos_that_girl

Active member
Thanks you so much all of you! I don't want to sound so sad, but I feel that way now. But I know it does and will eventually pass and I will feel better. I'm just having a very hard time with being so alone but that is part my fault. I've had opportunities to have people in my life, but as always, get scared or worse. My biggest fear is being rejected as it has happened recently after trying to meet some people. It happens to alot more people than just me, but i'm way too sensitive. Anyways, thanks for "listening" when I need people, that makes me feel better already. I will not give up like I want to again, but instead I will stay strong and move forward the best that I can. I hope all of you do too, I know i'm not the only very sad person here, so I wish all of you the best of luck. May we all find it within ourselves to overcome these real demons that are sucking the life right out of us!
 

FOR REAL

Banned
when you say your brother uses you i can totally relate to this.
my family are all great, i cant fault any of them at all.
its 'so called' friends that used to use me, until something better comes along then i never hear from them again!
it must be human nature
but i dont allow it anymore, i would rather be alone than have people walk all over me!
at least youve got your cat though, animals are better company than most people i think
 
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Apple Strudel

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I was out with my friend last night to catch a movie and during the times we sat on a bench while waiting for the movie to start, a strange cloud of loneliness starts to overwhelm me and at that point of time, I felt that I was so alone in the world with an emptiness inside me and I was like, after this movie, where would I be heading to?

When I watch the movie, the emotions starts to come back and I was once again stimulated for a while until the next day, which is today, that funny loneliness starts to overcome me again.

I guess I need lots and lots of any form of stimulants to keep me going. :(
 

faithnomore

Banned
I get lonely too. I was always too afraid to go anywhere, and it seems like i would have to be outgoing to keep friends.

Thankfully i have a couple of friends that dont need me to go out anywhere.

If only i had more people around like that.
 

Jesushasomeoneforme

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In Genesis, God said It is not good for man to be alone. I need everyone to expect a mate from Jesus. He gives you everything you need. Seek him and things will be blessings-girlfriends,boyfriends. BELIEVE BELIEVE BELIEVE Speak your boyfriend into existence. In the Bible God says we can have what we say.
 

klytus

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I need everyone to expect a mate from Jesus. He gives you everything you need. Seek him and things will be blessings-girlfriends,boyfriends. BELIEVE BELIEVE BELIEVE Speak your boyfriend into existence. In the Bible God says we can have what we say.
Reading this makes me want to seek eternal solitude.
 
I'm am so painfully lonely, I can't stand this anymore. It's basically just me and my cat because I have no friends and only a brother who uses me. I want to be out in the world with a life, but i'm always too scared. I want to volunteer, then I get scared. I want to work, then I get scared. I'm starting to feel very stupid for being so scared and shy all these years, embarassing too. My heart will not be able to take much more of this, I can already tell. ::(:

Me too. I want to do a lot of things, but I'm too scared. And being lonely is a horrible, painful feeling. I get so lonely I ache all over.
 
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