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peachie

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so i am a college student and a self diagnosed avoidant. my question is this, do you all find that you tend to attract people you are completely unattracted to? by that i mean, people who may be in some way 'broken' or 'have a lto fo baggage'?

thanks for any in put!
 

Tryin

Well-known member
do I tend to attract people I am completely unattracted to? well.. I'm not much of a gentleman-killer really, but I tend to make friends with shy, anxious and otherwise troubled people (as I can usually connect with them better then with more outgoing ones). which means that my friends (and I have few of them) usually don't have many other friends else than me. and for some reason my male friends tend to get attracted to me (as I am one of the few ladies they know). which is a trouble because as much as I love my friends, I never (and it happened twice) felt any attraction to them.
sigh. gotta go. have to go to the movies with one of my male friends. again. : roll: :roll:

what about you, Peachie?
 

Dreamer_15

Well-known member
umm...i dont really have any friends (well i dont full stop lol) but when im out somewhere and on the rare occasion i get unwanted attention from old ugly men :? i think they're just blind tho lol and perv on any young girl who walks by, ive had nice young males be interested in me before though by whistling and stuff :oops: and i would be attracted to them, so i think its half and half with me :)
 

Kevo

New member
A few times, but very rarely. I have a problem around any woman really. I've been on a few forums about love-shy issues, dealing with trying to gather the courage to speak to a female, but I've been rejected and socially humiliated so many times, I've pretty much given up all hope regarding women.
I've had a problem with misogynist thoughts, lately I've felt resentful of girls (especially around my own age, those dating cruel macho-moron bastards who relentlessly tormented me in the past) and, really, just wish the worst upon them.
Anywho, I'm pretty new to the forums, so I'll try to keep it short. That's my thing, I guess. Any girls on here who can tell me wtf women want, please let me know.
Peace!-Kevo
 

xkiss_me_nowx

Well-known member
Kevo said:
A few times, but very rarely. I have a problem around any woman really. I've been on a few forums about love-shy issues, dealing with trying to gather the courage to speak to a female, but I've been rejected and socially humiliated so many times, I've pretty much given up all hope regarding women.
I've had a problem with misogynist thoughts, lately I've felt resentful of girls (especially around my own age, those dating cruel macho-moron bastards who relentlessly tormented me in the past) and, really, just wish the worst upon them.
Anywho, I'm pretty new to the forums, so I'll try to keep it short. That's my thing, I guess. Any girls on here who can tell me wtf women want, please let me know.
Peace!-Kevo

pffft. :roll:
 
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