I recently joined an online dating website and came across a girl that caught my eye, we seemed to have a lot of similar interests and i thought she was extremely attractive.
I messaged her and we exchanged a couple of messages, after a week of sporadically talking i asked her is she wanted to go for a drink, her reply was really enthusiastic but said she had just started a new job so she didn't want to mess me about, i replied saying just to let me know when she was free and we can arrange something. I wasn't expecting a reply back, but she replied and gave me her number saying for me to text her.
I left it a couple of days and then text her....although her replies were fine she didn't ask me any questions....it was a one sided conversation! I messaged her again a couple of days ago and exactly the same thing! I did say in our last text exchange should i just leave her be and get the hint, her reply basically said it wasn't that and that she's again just really busy. Her twitter account is linked on her online profile and to be fair everything she has been saying to me has been confirmed on her twitter, she does seem really busy.
Problem is, i understand that your busy, but surely your never that busy not to text someone.... after all she has the time to go on the dating site and update her twitter!
Do you think i'm being played for a mug? The whole thing is confusing, i didn't even ask for her number! She should have done what any normal person would have done, said no immediately to the drink or say i'll message you when she's free and then just never message!
I messaged her and we exchanged a couple of messages, after a week of sporadically talking i asked her is she wanted to go for a drink, her reply was really enthusiastic but said she had just started a new job so she didn't want to mess me about, i replied saying just to let me know when she was free and we can arrange something. I wasn't expecting a reply back, but she replied and gave me her number saying for me to text her.
I left it a couple of days and then text her....although her replies were fine she didn't ask me any questions....it was a one sided conversation! I messaged her again a couple of days ago and exactly the same thing! I did say in our last text exchange should i just leave her be and get the hint, her reply basically said it wasn't that and that she's again just really busy. Her twitter account is linked on her online profile and to be fair everything she has been saying to me has been confirmed on her twitter, she does seem really busy.
Problem is, i understand that your busy, but surely your never that busy not to text someone.... after all she has the time to go on the dating site and update her twitter!
Do you think i'm being played for a mug? The whole thing is confusing, i didn't even ask for her number! She should have done what any normal person would have done, said no immediately to the drink or say i'll message you when she's free and then just never message!