Older women Young Me

i'm 23 years old and had about 5 or 6 girlfriends in my life which were all my age or a year younger or older. About a year ago me and my ex parted our ways because i was too busy and we lived 50 miles from each other. Within this past year i have had alot of older women come up to me in bars or even just talking on the internet with some ladies, they seem to have an interest in me, and these ladies are all over 30 and some are even 38-39 years old. Not so sound conceited but i do know im good looking and im tall and all that but what makes these older women want me? i could understand 1 or two of them but it's been about 10 of them in the past year. one of them was my step mothers friend who was 36 and married and she was hitting on me in front of my step mother in a bar one night, i thought it was just the alcohol in her. anyways is there any older woman out there that can explain this to me before i decide to sleep with one of these women, and what they want out of me, if you know. just to give you a bit of backround info on me, im kinda shy and will talk to these women and make them feel comfortable and make them laugh and i wont come on to them at all even if i offer to buy them a drink i give the impression that, that is it. is it just sex they want? or can it truly mean they want to know me? im just scared to get into something with one of these ladies for the fact of what my family may think. or should i stick with my own age? i haven't had sex in like 5 months so i'am ready to pounce on something either way, just let me know if it's the right idea to make it an older lady. thank you.

I'm in my 30s...so I suppose that makes me an older woman...although in defense of all folk over 30 I have to say...I'm not dead yet
I couldn't really tell you why you get approached by older women alot...except I'd guess that its only the same as a pretty woman in her twenties getting a lot of attention from older men.
I wouldn't read too much into it...be flattered that people find you attractive & treat everyone you meet as an individual & get to know them...then age...like everything else...isn't such an issue.

doesnt really matter what age there are in my view since females date guys totaly older than them if u like them try it, i have been with someone double my age and i found her alot more open and nice to talk to...

Well at least some women are interested in you.None was ever interested in me.

worrydoll said:

ohhh i was going to find a wiki article on it as well but couldnt. however..good news! i found a reallllly interesting article on chicken sexing!

How to sex a chicken

There are two chief methods of sexing chicks: feather sexing and vent sexing.

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chicken_sexer

learn something everyday, man...i dont know where id be without wikipedia! probably at work..lol.

good grief i'm so suburban! never heard of such a thing in my life!

Inflatable fetishism
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Inflatable fetishism (a/k/a inflatophilia) is a sexual fetish in which the person with said fetish is sexually attracted to or aroused by inflatable objects and/or toys (not necessarilly sex dolls.)

Most often, the inflatable fetishist will find himself or herself to be aroused primarily by inflatable swimming pool toys which are made of vinyl. Also, most inflatable fetishists seem to be most attracted to toys which are made to look like animals, such as dolphins or whales, but some focus on 'traditional' inflatables, like swim rings, air mats, and beach balls.

Similar to individuals predisposed to balloon fetishism, individuals predisposed to inflatable fetishism are known to fall into several groups, based on activity preference:

* Poppers: Poppers, as the name might suggest, are individuals who derive peak sexual pleasure from puncturing their inflatables or trying to reinflate punctured inflatables
* Inflators: Inflators are individuals who get their sexual pleasure from having their inflatables inflated while laying or sitting on top of them.
* Deflators: Deflators are individuals who are most aroused by controlledly deflating their inflatables while at rest on top of them.

Such groups aren't clean-cut and some people are of more than one group.

Inflatable fetishists, like inflation fetishists, are usually open to non-fetish sexual activity, so their fetish does not generally get in the way of their involved relationships.

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is it for real??? anyone do this??? ive never tried..i guess id know by now if inflatable rings were my thing. the good thing about inflatables is that can reallly float your boat! (unless youre a popper..in which case you would need ummm a sturdy self-supporting boat. oh ive confused myself now its all just such a shock to me lol

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:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :twisted: :wink: omg! what fun!
8O wait a minute! what about classical sex-dolls fetishists? Is it no more fashionable or what ? :lol:

oh.. I forgot something I wanted to say -its Worrydoll fault :wink:

Something like that happens to me. I don't seem to attract young girls at all but with older ones... I don't really know what they see on me. I believe it's because I look like such a nice sweet guy... Women of about 36 to 45 (+ or -) seem to be unable to stop looking at me and get quite interested in me 8O BUT don't know if it's about sex or just some kind of sweet simpathy. I get sometimes sick and tired about some of those women cause they insist so much on talking to me when I'm not interested at all.
I would strongly thank anyone who can tell me if it's attraction or just simpathy.

sorry to drag this to the top but i'm affected by both issues in this thread...

i'm female and in my (very) late 30's, my husband is 31... he is very into older women - his ex was in her late 50's!!

i really don't understand the attraction of dating a woman THAT much older!!

my husband is also into balloons and inflatables and whilst these used to be a part of our sex life, it now feels like they are taking over. sometimes i think he prefers them to me!!

one of the "dangers" of being married to a toyboy i suppose!!