New Years Resolutions?

Not that i actually made a list prior to new years, i don't really believe it is motivation enough to make things happen... BUT things i'd like to get done this year include;
getting through my work year
get over SA
finding a boyfriend
learn a language
but primarily i think a boyfriend is a must, now that i'm past my teen years and am an adult :!:
I just want to go out to a bar, have fun and... pick up as i have missed on that whole part of my life... oh to HAVE FUN is another resolution as i have noticed how much of that is lacking in my life. Now i invite everyone else to list their goals for the year..

mine is to talk to people more and go out and be more involved.
and also to try and save more money because i always spend it on stupid things when im bored.

i wud say get a girlfriend but ive kinda given up on that lol. i joined a football team last sunday and played my first proper match which id always wanted to do but never had the nerve to do it, so thats a massive step for me this year

Jus i could add those to my list, i also spend on anything just because i'm out.. but usually chocolate and movies. And definitely getting more involved, but in situations I usually chickenout of.
Smyth, you can't give up on getting a girlfriend! Do you really want to miss out on that part of life? And from what i can tell your good looking, artistic and willing to get over this problem.. i am planning on joining any extra activity...eventually.- Andrea.

Getting over this social phobia which I'm really hoping to do, and one of the main things I want/need to do is get a job, which will lead to friends, girlfriend money etc, but if non of that happens then I guess go out a little bit more. I'm still young so the sooner it happens the better...

getting over SA... and getting the heck outta this country!