My plan

Luke1993

Luke1993

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Hello boys and girls! I've been reading a lot of posts here, but I feel bad for not making a topic, so I'm making one now! I've tried posting topics but always back out, but I've finally brought myself to post.

Now what is my plan? Well I'm still a virgin, which is really annoying me because everyone else has lost it except us SA people! So what we should do is all save ourselves some money, then whenever our next birthday is, buy a prostitute (Or male equivalent for the ladies) and then you can have sex for the first time! Just make sure to wear a condom of course, (Or for girls the pill or whatever) and then you can say you've had sex!

I know it still won't solve the being loved problem, but hey at least we all get sex this way! Just stay safe!
 
Harleyq

Harleyq

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If that works for you. I know a guy whose friends bought him a prostitute to lose his virginity to and he was elated and bragging about how he "tore that up for an hour and a half". My bf and some others didn't think it was anything to brag about, but he was happy, so whatever - more power to him!

I'd just be worried about STDs. Condoms don't protect you from crabs..aka bugs , and pills don't protect girls from any kind of STD. Plus, if I got a significant other after that incident, I'd be embarrassed to tell him/her "Yeah, I lost my virginity to a prostitute" because I'd be worried that it would diminish sexual relations with my long-term partner...not much, mind you, but it would still make things a bit awkward to me.

But then I'm a prude, I wouldn't want to be with a promiscuous person, either. I'm one of those annoying people who equate sex with love, regarding my personal life.
 
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Luke1993

Luke1993

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ah i regret posting this i was feeling happy but now im a bit sad. egozero's comment made me thinking everyones just laughing at me and my stupid ideas....ah well sorry guys :(
 
Harleyq

Harleyq

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Luke1993 said:
ah i regret posting this i was feeling happy but now im a bit sad. egozero's comment made me thinking everyones just laughing at me and my stupid ideas....ah well sorry guys :(
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If it makes you feel better, I'm not laughing at you, nor do I think your idea is stupid. At the worst, I wonder how much you've thought this through. But like I said, if it works for you, great! Just because your idea isn't conventional doesn't mean it's necessarily bad. Just make sure it's something you really want to do and that you've thought everything out first.
 
Sinar_Matahari

Sinar_Matahari

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"There is no shame in paying for it", I always say. By now, people on this forum who know me probably know that I'm pretty open-minded.

In most of Europe (as far as I know) prostitution is legal where the women get regular health checkups, are safe from harm, have rights, medical benefits, and even a pension once they retire. This is more than most truck-stop hookers and people sold into the sex trade can ask for. If everyone envolved is safe, consenting, healthy and clean I personally would not object to a person hiring a giggolo/prostitute for his/her services.

I'd much rather hire a prostitue rather than not get laid for the next thirty years. I don't find anything dirty or wrong about it. If only George Sodini had taken that option then he may have not flipped out from not ever getting laid.

Remember to be polite to the man or woman because I'm sure they get enough rude customers as is.
 
Harleyq

Harleyq

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Barry1979 said:
Even if i had never been laid i would NEVER go the prostitution route.....but hey to each his own. I know tons of my friends who have went thi route (even though they get laid all the time) lol
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This I don't understand...if you don't have to pay, why would you? Maybe the prostitutes' rates are cheaper than plowing people with shots or dinner and a movie? lol
 
Nicholas

Nicholas

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My guess is that most virgins here don't want a prostitute, because they don't just want sex. They want a romantic relationship, and they want to do it with their partners.
Getting a prostitute is not that difficult. Just like going to a bar, or getting a random job. But this forum is mainly for people who want relationships, friends, a girlfriend, a life. That's the point.
 
Sinar_Matahari

Sinar_Matahari

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Luke1993 said:
ah i regret posting this i was feeling happy but now im a bit sad. egozero's comment made me thinking everyones just laughing at me and my stupid ideas....ah well sorry guys :(
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Your idea is not stupid! This is a great way to practice your skills before you go for "non-working" girls. You'd be surprised what you could learn. If you pick a friendly prostitute, you could ask her things that you normally would be too afraid to ask another woman. Don't worry about people judging you if you do choose to go through with your idea. I've had boyfriends who used to frequent brothels and I didn't think anything of it.
 
Harleyq

Harleyq

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Barry1979 said:
LOL its called being addicted to sex!
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What they need to do is go to a sex addict convention and get a FWB deal going with other addicts. They may have to suit up in fuzzy animal costumes but hey, who doesn't love a soft plushy squeeze? lol j/k
 
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Queen_Of_Pain

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Luke1993 said:
Hello boys and girls! I've been reading a lot of posts here, but I feel bad for not making a topic, so I'm making one now! I've tried posting topics but always back out, but I've finally brought myself to post.

Now what is my plan? Well I'm still a virgin, which is really annoying me because everyone else has lost it except us SA people! So what we should do is all save ourselves some money, then whenever our next birthday is, buy a prostitute (Or male equivalent for the ladies) and then you can have sex for the first time! Just make sure to wear a condom of course, (Or for girls the pill or whatever) and then you can say you've had sex!

I know it still won't solve the being loved problem, but hey at least we all get sex this way! Just stay safe!
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Just because someone doesn't have SA it doesn't mean that they're not a virgin, and vise versa. Don't feel like you must get laid to get respect because it could do the opposite.
 
Sinar_Matahari

Sinar_Matahari

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Barry1979 said:
LOL its called being addicted to sex! I would never pay for sex under any circumstance i would just assume use my hand like i do now....on top of that i have never been one to stress over sex nor do i require it. My outlook is i just get laid when i get laid.
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You're one of those too-proud to pay guys, eh? ::p: I can understand where you're coming from but I wouldn't be too proud to pay for booty. Thankfully, I'm a female and I don't have to pay for sex. Women can basically get laid anytime they want. Men, on the other hand have it much harder. Even the good looking guys.
 
Jake123

Jake123

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We should set up a "Donate" button on the website that puts money in a paypal account for the sexually needy :)

Or ya know you could just hit me up. :p

I think I use my promiscuity as an outlet as part of my SA. Since I have such low self-esteem doing it with lots of guys makes me feel better about myself =/ As pathetic as that sounds

I always end up regretting it though because it's completely meaningless and it would be much better with someone who actually cared about me.
 
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klytus

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and then you can say you've had sex!
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The only problem I see with this is the incentive to go to a prostitute - or have sex in general. You appear to need such a real experience to be able to tell friends you have had sex without lying in the process - which is unwise. First of all, having had sex does not imply any kind of maturity, or competence, or other qualities which are certainly more important to attain than the ability to say - without the need to lie - that one isn't a virgin.

Then there's a certain philosophy on life which may be violated by going to a prostitute, but that's up to the individual to decide. I'm with Serafina on this one - just make sure that you know your reasoning and can predict that it won't have detrimental effects on your future mental health.
 
Sinar_Matahari

Sinar_Matahari

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Barry1979 said:
Funny story. I went to the beach back in 07 with a friend. We both took around 2k each with us, we were staying on his dads timeshare so everything was free. I woke up one morning and my friend had gotten drunk after i had already passed out and had called a escort service and he payed 700$.

Anyway he was telling me this story the next day. He said he had sex with her and as soon as he was done he was sitting in his bed naked with just a sheet over him smoking a cig with a 5th of jack daniels..... pissed at himself for spending that much money. He said the girl got up and handed him a card and said honey if you need anything else just calll me......he said he looked at her and "bitch just get the **** outta here". Sorry i just thought id share it was funny. We also had to come home 2 days early over this incident!
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"Bitch just get the **** outta here"? I don't think that's funny, but to each their own. I think prostitutes get treated like dirt, and disrespected enough as is. I have never judged any of my exes for going to prostitutes but if I knew that they had treated them the way that your friend treated his escort, I would have never even been interested. There are many men who pay for sex but then think that they have the right to treat the prostitute like s**t. No offense to you, but your friend is a complete dick.
 
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