bulldog21083
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You need to accept her decision and just work on moving forward.
bulldog21083 said:SickerJoke said:It seems like things started to go wrong after dinner with her parents. Maybe her parents didn't approve of the relationship, maybe they thought you weren't right for her. Maybe she wasn't completely happy with the relationship and then her parents' input, on top of that, made her decide to end it. That's a lot of "maybes;" it's hard to say what the reason is for sure.
What you can do is learn from the experience, remember the good times you had together, and move on. It's tough, some grieving is definitely expected, but pick yourself up again as soon as you can, and start meeting other women. The sooner the better. Stay strong and keep us posted.
I suppose that's possible, but she always told me her parents really liked me. And it's not like I didn't talk to them at all.
I'm trying to move on, but so far it's been tough cause almost everything reminds me of her. I watch tv by myself, and I miss watching it with her. Work is tougher now too cause we used to e-mail each other so much. I told her I'd like to stay friends with her and she seems to be open to that. I'm just a little concerned about her as well and I don't want to totally abandon her. And who knows if it really was her and not me, maybe she'll get straightened out 6 months from now and then be ready to date again. I'd really like to remain friends with her and keep in touch. I'm just concerned that if we did that and next time we meet up it would just be kind of awkward cause we wouldn't be bf/gf.
Patrick123 said:...insanity...creepy stalker advice...blah blah blah...
Why not put a hidden camera in her house while you're at it.
Patrick123 said:4. Location, Location, Location. Location is key. You need to move her away from all foreign influences (i.e. persuasions that are not your own). Buy two plane tickets to Venezuela and tell her 'Baby, I've got two tickets to paradise, pack your bags, we'll leave tonight, and we won't be comin' back.' This step establishes the finality of your relationship status. By now, she should know that you ARE her future.
*Venezuela is a perfect location as the the government does not have a friendly extradition relationship with the U.S. This guards you against the consequences of becoming a criminal, which you have, in fact, become by completing these steps.
She pretty much told you why she broke up with you but didn't give you the specific reasons. Seems like she's made a decision and you should not at all try to get her back by e-mailing her, giving her gifts or in any way stalk her, then she'll only get scared and see you as a psychopath. Sorry to say it, but it's a lost battle, you'll just have to get over it. She told you she wasn't that girl for you and that's actually a good enough reason - she doesn't harmonise with you in "that" way.