My boss want's to make me do a psychologist test

itay

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Hi to all,
Yet again problems at work, it's 4 years i'm here, i'm quit well at my job (people say it) but i always had problems with the people, i did other jobs in the past even a one in a factory where a virtually didn't need to mix with people, but yet again i always had problems, i'm accused of not talking to the collegues, i'm considerated for that an unpleasent person so i'm not liked, in other jobs rather than problems with people i faced that i wasen't so good so my supervisors had an excuse on me but now that i'm here doing what i studied for and what i like and what i think i'm god at (and people say i'm good in my job, even my boss) but yet again i have major comunications problems with my boss the fact that causes my many problems rather than sa is that he his an aggressive person, he's stressed for his own reasons (i think he doesen't like the job) and cause i don't talk a lot he want's to make me do a psychologist test, it's a written test where i have to answers yes or no. I've asked him why and he sed that every one has already done it (i know this is not true since i've asked collegues) and because i have to work on my motivatione cause i don't have enough. In this years he has always told me that i should talk to him more, but it's difficult for me not alone for the sa but because he's aggressive and an unpleasent person (all the collegues say the same thing so it isin't me) but what makes my ungry is that he has got an excuse to pick on me for. What he would really want (and he has made me clear to me) is that i would want me to "lick his ass" (sorry for the expression, what i mean he would want me to praise him since his my boss). I'm aware of my faults but he his a c*nt, he's frustrated for his reasons when i try to talk to him and explain work problems he will always argue about thinks, if i say a thing is black he would say that it's black but with a slite white, if i explain things tecnical cause he doesen't undestand he will say it's my fault cause i don't explain things well and so on .. and he does the same thing with the others as well so (and all the others say that he his a c*nt as well) it isin't my fault my fault is that i don't praise him ....
He's always frustated and angry (for his reasons and he has even told me so, that when i talk to him and he bites my neck off he tells me that it isin't an excuse for me not to talk to him cause he has his own problems and he's not biting me neck off cause he has got something wrong with me ...)
I want to find a solution for not doing the test cause he's using my sa as an excuse for putting the blame on me that i have got problems with him when it's him that has problems cause he his frustated and uses me as a sponge. I think that he his in touch with a psychologist and that he eventually even send me to him and i think this isin't correct.
I must be aware that i've always had problems with people and my supervisors in past jobs and they could pick on me cause i wasen't not very god at my job but now that i am they are using my sa to blame me, and this his bovvering me cause i'm a sysadmin i mean i'm not a sales manager who has got to necessary had god social skills to do his job ...
 
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