meeting someone from msn

footballfan

footballfan

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omg omg omg, this woman I been chatting to on msn, wants to meet me. And it's what I want, but now I'm scared she will think I'm a freak if we meet. And she is REALLY popular aswell, she has 500+ friends on facebook, and loves socialising. She's gonna think I'm a wierdo.
How can I be calm about this?
anyone else been through this?
 
Emma

Emma

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8O 8O 8O

I'm doing the same thing....in 119 days to be exact!!
What do we do, he's going to think I'm a weirdo too!

Ummmmm....be yourself???

If it doesn't work out, we can both sob and eat lots....good luck with yours.
 
crome

crome

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Honestly the only thing that I would advise you is to just tell her straight out that you're the opposite of her. Don't let her know about your SA if you don't want to but at least let her know that you're 'shy' ... [I'm sure you hate getting that label too but just roll with it]
 
footballfan

footballfan

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lol emma I like that you know exactly how many days left. good luck with yours. I don't have to worry about sobbing and eating loads yet.
Things went great, we met twice now and she is crazy about me for some reason.
We text each other all the time, and she coming down mine again tomorrow, cant wait. She is amazing and gorgeous.
I did just what you said chrome without reading your post. lol She just thinks I'm shy. I hate lying to her but it's really hard to tell her, whats really wrong with me.
Hope things work out, but I'll enjoy it while it lasts and not worry about the future :mad:)
 
creep_x

creep_x

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u have told her that u r shy so ur not telling her that u have sa does not make it such a big deal, if u know what i mean. besides, a lot of ppl think sa is just shyness, hell most arent even aware of sa. so dont keep telling urself that u r lying. maybe later on u can tell her that u have sa, if u want to.
n its good that things r going well between u n her so far.
 
footballfan

footballfan

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Told her about having social problems the other day, cause she said to me "have you always been this shy".
She didn't know what it was, and she definatly couldn't relate cause she is the total opposite in that way, but said that she will be here to support me no matter what :)
Things are better than ever between us, starting to get to know each other, which is really fun.
Thanks for the posts guys, meant alot :)
 
NormanBates

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Hmm looks like the meat of this post is past. Oh well. Anyway

Yes I've had the same kind of worries and even dated someone really popular before. I don't think there's anything to worry about unless you do something TRULY antisocial and obnoxious. If all you're having is shyness, then someone who likes you really has no reason to avoid you.
 
footballfan

footballfan

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WOW!!! my advice to anyone on here is...........DON'T DATE A POPULAR PERSON.
It's way too stressfull. Cause with my problem, I only have 2 or 3 close friends, so I need attention more than most and when she is so busy keeping in contact with so many people. It can be hard to feel loved as much as I would like. And it is not doing my confidence or health any good at all.
only date a confident person, when you are confident yourself, or there will be a major clash in personalities, after the new love fades away.
 
Weirdo

Weirdo

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Do I understand correctly that you broke up with that girl where things were great between you two posts above?
 
footballfan

footballfan

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Nah we're still together, it's just hard god dam work trying to keep my sanity, when I need so much attention and she can't give it.
 
freestylemonster

freestylemonster

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^^Yeah I hate that! I have like 2 friends so when this one girl that I really like doesn't text me or anything for like a day I always start thinking "Oh she probably doesn't like me or something :(" when really it's just she has a life and she's out living it
 
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