Love?

SilentType

Banned
I think we all just need to find "that person" who we want to spend the rest of our lives with, and vice versa. If two people love each other to the extent where they live solely for each other without even blinking an eye, then what else do they need? In my opinion, that is what love is, and it is the best medicine known to man. Unfortunately I do not put myself out there or have retreated when approached by women through the first 20 years of this life... Until I find this woman of my dreams I will continue my affair with my beloved Mary Jane... Not a bad consolation...but it's nothing compared to what I suspect real love to be...


Peace
 

Kien

Well-known member
I don't believe in any dream woman. I don't believe that loves is ment for all. I see less social people (me for example) as the weak individs of the human species. However, we don't die becouse humans care for each other. We continue our miserable life all the way.
 

SilentType

Banned
That's a negative way of looking at it though... I know a lot of people here have gained a negative perspective on life in general through the experiences they have had thus far.

Just hear me out... Us socially phobic individuals can still be constructive parts of our society. People like us just hold jobs where we work alone and many times even learn on our own. It's all about accepting yourself and working toward your strengths instead of getting down about your weaknesses. We all have a lot of both. If you say you don't, you just haven't looked hard enough.


Peace
 

miss_amy

Well-known member
I believe even if you have love and have found someone forever, you still need to have a sense of self. You cannot totally live for that person and nothing or no one else. Having interests, friends, whatever it is, something of your own makes you a nicer person to be with.
 

persian

Active member
Kien said:
I don't believe in any dream woman. I don't believe that loves is ment for all. I see less social people (me for example) as the weak individs of the human species. However, we don't die becouse humans care for each other. We continue our miserable life all the way.

Agreed.
Strip humanity of it's norms, rules and regulations and we would be exactly like animals ... weak would die out - that is the way of nature. What humanity has done is just prolonged the torments of weak individuals.
 

4seasons

Well-known member
If I met a girl i could spend the rest of my life with I wouldn't care about anything else. I would just accept my SA for what it is and live my life. Maybe in the end that what would help me get over it.

But thats never going to happen for me, I've pretty much accepted that.
 

Kien

Well-known member
Even if you don't find any love, at least having a friend-girl that you can really speak out to can make life a bit happier. ;)
 
Yeah I agree. All I would ever want more than anything is one person who loves me and understands me, and that would mean the world to me. Just having one person like this can really make a big difference in your life, it's just so unlikely to find someone like this.
 

IWouldPreferNotTo

Well-known member
Finding the one person who we could share life with would be great. When I was younger, I was terrified of the idea of spending the rest of my life alone. The closer I got to 30, the scarier it got. Ironically, now I've passed that barrier, I'm not nearly as terrified of the idea. In fact, I tend to look at the advantages of being alone: you can do what you want, when you want. More $$$ to spend on yourself (greedy, I know). I don't even know if I could be married, I so used to living alone. Besides, I don't want kids, and not many girls don't want kids. Still, it would be nice to find someone who I had a lot in common with, who also didn't want kids. That's a freaking fantasy, though.
 

RedRibbons

Well-known member
Ahh such a dorky day. A DORKY DAY! HOORAY!

Love is something you do. And when you find someone that you want to love, and that wants to love you, then that love will be true! :lol:

No one is meant to be alone, it's just a choice we make. Whether it's guided by fear, or because we just truly want to be alone. The fearful will hopefully one day stop being afraid, and those who want to be alone, will find the peace in their solitude. :lol:

"Can't explain all the feelings that you're making me feel
My heart's in overdrive and you're behind the steering wheel

Touching you, touching me
touching you, god you're touching me

I believe in a thing called love
Just listen to the rhythm of my heart
There's a chance we could make it now
We'll be rocking 'til the sun goes down
I believe in a thing called love
Ooh!

I wanna kiss you every minute, every hour, every day
You got me in a spin but everythin' is A.OK!

Touching you, touching me
touching you, god you're touching me

I believe in a thing called love
Just listen to the rhythm of my heart
There's a chance we could make it now
We'll be rocking 'til the sun goes down
I believe in a thing called love
Ooh! Guitar!

Touching you, touching me
touching you, god you're touching me

I believe in a thing called love
Just listen to the rhythm of my heart
There's a chance we could make it now
We'll be rocking 'til the sun goes down
I believe in a thing called love
Ooh!"


You might wanna watch the video for the full effect!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-4VOLeKBOw
 

Sacrament

Well-known member
Love can be a beautiful thing when you have an ounce of respect for yourself, what you do, what you are and what you stand for. If you're with someone, sure, you will love them, but not only will you 'depend' on that love to make you happy, you'll also become obsessive, controlling and generally obnoxious.

It might be cliché, but in order to love someone, you must focus on loving yourself first.
 

shon

Well-known member
miss_amy said:
I believe even if you have love and have found someone forever, you still need to have a sense of self. You cannot totally live for that person and nothing or no one else. Having interests, friends, whatever it is, something of your own makes you a nicer person to be with.

I agree. It's important to love and be loved but it doesn't cure your problems. It doesn't mean you'll be happy forever and your problems can have a big impact on your partner.
 
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