Lonely guy..just broke up with GF.

Nytro

Well-known member
Hello

Im 21 from NJ and starting to feel really lonely, been broken up with my girlfriend for 2 weeks now, since weve been going out for 3 years it really huts. :oops:

Lol, ive been getting some sad vibes even from this site, I dunno if im agrivating people or not but alot of what I have to say is solid advise. I just never get any feedback on them, kinda like im talking to the wall.
So maybe im not posting what people want to hear?

I dunno what im doing wrong, one of my bad traits is im so damn sensitive and knock myself way too much. And Its hard to get out of this hole when I feel as if I have no support.

Anyways ill keep on writing...
 

carebear

Well-known member
chav,
you are a trip...are you sure your depressed?? 8O
i'm sorry for asking but you are just too funny! :lol:
 

carebear

Well-known member
i know chav..i know... :wink:
that's cool though that you have such a a sense of humor about sa.
laughter makes you live longer ya know! :lol: :p :wink:
 

TigerShark

Active member
Man, I completely hear you on the feeling lonely thing, and know the feeling of being loved and losing it. And don't ever feel like your talking to a brick wall in here. Trust me, I'm sure alot of us feel the exact same way sometimes, I know I do. But that's just our insecurities messing with us. The internet is a very impersonal way to communicate, unfortunately, that's the best that alot of us in this chat forum can do. I'm sure if you crowded all of us together in a real room where we could talk, all of us would click with eachother pretty fast, and it'd be a very warm and positive room.
 

Nytro

Well-known member
Probably would but It would take a bit more time for us to open our mouths and think of somehting to say.
 

Chilling__Echo

Well-known member
hey nytro, sorry you're not too happy right now. mini message me next time you're online, unless i see you first

over the summer my 3 yr relationship ended so i deffinately know what you're going through. depression, will i find someone again, what's there now?, feeling like you have no friends, grief over the loss, getting used to life after them

i dont know where to start.

but i will say that there is life after this. you WILL feel better and your life will go on and things will get better. it's just taking it one day at a time. and do all the cliche advise people always give for this. stay busy, meet knew people, take this time to learn about YOURSELF.

about the site, sorry you're feeling unhappy about it so far, but don't leave, stick around. say what's on your mind.

like i say, message me, i'd love to talk to you. good luck and my heart goes out to you
 

jss

Well-known member
you are lucky man you at least had a girl friend

but me i didn't ever have a girl friend and i am 21 years now
Nytro said:
Hello

Im 21 from NJ and starting to feel really lonely, been broken up with my girlfriend for 2 weeks now, since weve been going out for 3 years it really huts. :oops:

Lol, ive been getting some sad vibes even from this site, I dunno if im agrivating people or not but alot of what I have to say is solid advise. I just never get any feedback on them, kinda like im talking to the wall.
So maybe im not posting what people want to hear?

I dunno what im doing wrong, one of my bad traits is im so damn sensitive and knock myself way too much. And Its hard to get out of this hole when I feel as if I have no support.

Anyways ill keep on writing...
 
Hi,

wow, i'm really sorry to hear that. It must be hard to deal with. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and we are having major problems, or i think maybe i'm the problem. i'm really scared to lose him because i really care about him, and i feel like it's all my fault that we are falling apart. Im so scared he doesnt care about me and i know i love him, but things are just getting messed up. i hope you are okay though. i wouldnt have been as strong as you to try to move on. your strong. ur giving people advice. that's all u can do. it's the other persons decision to take ur advice or not. people are strange like that. they want advice but they don't use it or like it when they get it.

U'll find someone else that will love u, dont worry. no one is meant to be alone in this world. no one.

unpretty
 

iamantisocial

Well-known member
I know how it feels like.

It happened to me. I really fell in love with her as in I wanna marry her and fuck her until I'm old and my dick gets limp... I really really loved her with fanatical extreme dedication that is comparable to those guys who blow themselves up to kill infidels.

But the bitch just didnt have any feelings and even threatened to call the cops and I'm a stalker and shit... after all IVE DONE FOR HER!!! IVE HELPED HER WITH A BIG ASSIGNMENT THAT WAS DUE TOMORROW OR SHE WOULDA LOST 25% OF HER FINAL GRADE AND HAVE HER ASS BEATEN BY HER DAD!!!

WHAT A FUCKING INGRATE BITCH!!!


Well anyway it sucks. I understand... lol... :)
 

loneEAGLE

Well-known member
:cry: boohoo im 30 and i never had a girlfriend,YES THINGS COULD BE WORSE<<life is a shitty hell..you can laugh at me :wink:
 

Nytro

Well-known member
no i wouldnt laugh at you, your still young man 30 is the new 20. Just find stuff you like to do and pursue it women will come and go thats for sure but you need to find direction and goals for yourself.
 

SocialRetahd

Well-known member
loneEAGLE said:
:cry: boohoo im 30 and i never had a girlfriend,YES THINGS COULD BE WORSE<<life is a shitty hell..you can laugh at me :wink:

You're not too much old than me and I'm in the same boat. It bothered me for years but it doesn't now. I just focus on financial gain and worry about girls later.
 

Teenie

Member
aww i know how u feel im goin through a hard time with my bf and im kinda sensitive too and im just blaming myself for it even tho hes mostly bein an ass but u just have to be positive cuz ull get over it eventually it just takes time and talkin to ur friends and ppl helps too
 
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