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Livingwithoutlivin

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It just dawned on me today... I stopped creating who I was, I stopped believing empowering lies, which in reality, are not lies at all, they are your inner belief, your personal beliefs about yourself, that work as a mold for your actions and decisions in life. We all here are walking through our lives wearing a pair of glasses - through which we are seeing the world through the viewpoint that we already failed- and the world is against us.

The trick is to believe that we are great- to act as if we are the smartest, coolest, relaxed, successful people already. We need to be that person now- and therefore do what that type of person would do, and eventually we will have what somebody who conducts themselves as a successful person, ends up having. We need to change the glasses that we are wearing.


I used to be a great kid before I had anxiety. People were giving me compliments left and right. They would tell my mom that I'm so mature for my age, so smart, so good at eye contact, that I have a great personality. I was a good sales person at the mall. But guess where I started changing? One day, my mom found a hickey on my throat, and she scolded me... all of a sudden... I made a decision in that very moment... that I was not the smart prudent kid that my mom had thought me to be all along... I gave up on creating that person who she had thought I was... because I thought, I just erased the good image that my mom had of me... I believed this idea so much, that i stopped fixing my hair, I started not dressing up and looking neat... I stopped trying to impress my mom, because in my eyes, I had already failed... and guess what? When you do this, you allow it to slowly spread and affect the rest of your life, then you allow one more person, and another one and another one to see you in a different light, and soon you are not who you once truly believe you were, you are who you decided to believe everybody thinks you are. We need to create who we are... that is the trick of life, we are actually actors on a stage, and this life is one change to play one role... and if it ever goes wrong... we can just start anew in the middle of it. So I'm going to re-create those beliefs of high self worth for myself, and I'm going to tell you guys how it goes.
 
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