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I liked this guy i met online (i tend to try online because I'm shy but now i give up) and he seemed to like me alot. he asked me out and i said yes because i wanted a positive relationship for once. I was going to spend valentines with him and also planned for him to meet my friends and family. Well he canceled and broke up with me saying how he didn't want a serious relationship yet never told me that. Saying he likes me but didn't want to lead me on when he still did. he also said how he felt i didn't trust him. I asked him just about girl's pictures he liked because I wanted to know if they were friends, i never made a deal about it. He blocked me on one of the sites we talked on. Should i just forget him or maybe be friends one day?
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You and him were in a relationship before meeting in person?

I would recommend that you try to build new friendships above all, and then take things slowly if you feel like there's a spark with a certain someone. Don't give in immediately. Keep interacting, try to hang out with the person, and do your best to measure your feelings according to what you see the other person doing and acting.
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You and him were in a relationship before meeting in person?

I would recommend that you try to build new friendships above all, and then take things slowly if you feel like there's a spark with a certain someone. Don't give in immediately. Keep interacting, try to hang out with the person, and do your best to measure your feelings according to what you see the other person doing and acting.


No i talked to him for a few weeks and hanged out with him. Then we dated. Yeah I'll just make friends from now on and try to see the person they are first
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Try to forget him, and try to move on.
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From what you told me, he doesn't sound nice, you should forget about him, it's rude

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Sounds to me like he doesnt deserve your friendship
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I liked this guy i met online (i tend to try online because I'm shy but now i give up) and he seemed to like me alot. he asked me out and i said yes because i wanted a positive relationship for once. I was going to spend valentines with him and also planned for him to meet my friends and family. Well he canceled and broke up with me saying how he didn't want a serious relationship yet never told me that. Saying he likes me but didn't want to lead me on when he still did. he also said how he felt i didn't trust him. I asked him just about girl's pictures he liked because I wanted to know if they were friends, i never made a deal about it. He blocked me on one of the sites we talked on. Should i just forget him or maybe be friends one day?
Guys can be a weird lot. For some, the whole power/control aspect is big for them in as far as feeling comfortable. Which means their true motives can be a complete bleeping mystery. The only way to suss out if they're being real or not is to know them in person for awhile until you can get an impression about them. Based on what you've said about this guy, he doesn't sound all that worthy of your time and effort. It sucks when you invest emotional energy into someone only to have it wasted. Makes a person almost want to keep trying just to justify the effort. Hence why so many people (gals and guys) are still in crappy relationships. As sucky as it is, I suggest trying again with someone new and hope they're better. I wish you luck. And sorry it didn't work out with the guy.
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