davemason2k
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I've always been quiet and even before I had SA I had 1 or 2 friends at most. Then I started having anxiety problems and the first two years of high school were horrible. Through therapy and medication I made a couple real good friends and the last 2 years of high school were great times. Then I had a big setback and was so paranoid and full of panic, I couldn't even bare to hang out with my friends anymore. I totally lost it and pretty much became a recluse. I had on and off oddball jobs, no friends, and pretty much gave up on life. About 4 months ago I had a huge panic attack and felt like I was having heart problems. I went to the doctor and she presribed Paxil and a few weeks later I decided to see a therapist.
Well, I feel a little better, but it's really hard to go through life without friends. I'm starting a new job soon and I'm worried about fitting in. I need someone to talk to at my new job or I will go insane! But, here's the problem: I've been so antisocial the last couple years, I'm scared I will have no clue how to make friends. It sounds stupid, but all weekend I was trying to plan how I would go about meeting people and my confidence level is so low, that I started questioning if I will ever meet anyone again.
It's hard enough for non SA people to meet people after school, but add SA to that and I feel hopeless and so alone. Has anyone been in this position before? Do you have any advice? What were your experiences? I'm so sick of my shitty personality when meeting new people. I say hello and then I have nothing to say. I just sit there like a nervous dope and feel awkward. I'm so out of practice socially and it's like I'm setup to fail. It's getting to the point where I'm desperate for someone to talk to and support me. At this point I would be happy with a girlfriend and that's it. Just one at least!!! I've spent all weekend worrying about this and I just feel like I'm damaged goods. I fear everything right now
Well, I feel a little better, but it's really hard to go through life without friends. I'm starting a new job soon and I'm worried about fitting in. I need someone to talk to at my new job or I will go insane! But, here's the problem: I've been so antisocial the last couple years, I'm scared I will have no clue how to make friends. It sounds stupid, but all weekend I was trying to plan how I would go about meeting people and my confidence level is so low, that I started questioning if I will ever meet anyone again.
It's hard enough for non SA people to meet people after school, but add SA to that and I feel hopeless and so alone. Has anyone been in this position before? Do you have any advice? What were your experiences? I'm so sick of my shitty personality when meeting new people. I say hello and then I have nothing to say. I just sit there like a nervous dope and feel awkward. I'm so out of practice socially and it's like I'm setup to fail. It's getting to the point where I'm desperate for someone to talk to and support me. At this point I would be happy with a girlfriend and that's it. Just one at least!!! I've spent all weekend worrying about this and I just feel like I'm damaged goods. I fear everything right now