i'm just too afraid.

Hi,

I have so many plans at the moment, which drive me crazy, i want to live in a students house with other people, i want to find a job, iwant to study again. I was just about to call to find a job and i started to give up. I was holding the telephone in my hand and i was feeling so much anxiety, from now on. I realized that all those things are too big for me, but i really want to!!!! I spent 2 years in house, just givng up my whole damn life, and i really want to start over. what would you do in my situation??
I really want to reach something.. oh god.. :( its so much pressure and because im 18 i want to do something !!!! i hate my life !
my anxiety messed up my whole life, please anxiety go away

:(
 

Waybuloo

Well-known member
Hi,

I have so many plans at the moment, which drive me crazy, i want to live in a students house with other people, i want to find a job, iwant to study again. I was just about to call to find a job and i started to give up. I was holding the telephone in my hand and i was feeling so much anxiety, from now on. I realized that all those things are too big for me, but i really want to!!!! I spent 2 years in house, just givng up my whole damn life, and i really want to start over. what would you do in my situation??
I really want to reach something.. oh god.. :( its so much pressure and because im 18 i want to do something !!!! i hate my life !
my anxiety messed up my whole life, please anxiety go away

:(

Take a deep breath :)
Can I just say it is so great for you to have motivation to do things in the first place? A lot of people would like to have that determination but sometimes it's not easy to get there. You are in the right frame of mind.

But maybe you should lower your expectation a bit, and not be too hard on yourself. Instead of thinking you SHOULD do this and do that, focus on what you WANT to do, what interests you instead.

Study or work, but don't take up too much. If you can find an easy part time job and study fulltime.
 

Ignace

Well-known member
It won't go away because you ask it to. :( Well, I couldn't do it, but from what I read from u, you can do all those days. You sing in public/on the net, dance on youtube, .. those are all great things ! I bet, that if you push through it, and you get a job and everything you will get better. And if you reach something like that, you're proud of yourself. Don't think about calling, cause it will stop you, just call that number ! :D
 

LookingForward

Well-known member
There's no need to overload yourself, take one goal at a time.
Accept that it is not going to be easy, that it is going to take a lot of hard work and that you will have failures along the way but that is ok, everyone fails in their plans now and then, that is nothing to worry you.
It's terrific that you have decided to move forward, too many people take the easy route of accepting defeat and locking themselves away.

What you have to keep in your mind is that no one can stop you from achieving your goals except yourself, your anxieties are created by your own thoughts so it is up to you to try as hard as you can to control them and cast them aside and keep moving forward.
Nothing can stop you if you can just have a little faith in yourself, try and then try again and then keep trying...
Anything you achieve is better than sitting around alone....

Best of luck, I'll be hoping everything works out for you...
 
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