I'm done with women...

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no1

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women want a pick up artist. They are all very demanding and won't try a thing to help out little old me. Hell they don't even know what they want until it freakin hits them in the face.

When you ask women what they want? They want a man to sweep them off their feet, ie to get picked up. Or they will tell you you need to become a friend first, or get to know them, etc. But they don't know sh*t about what to do in relationships, they just want a man to do everything for them, and if they don't they will think you aren't a man and are weak, and they will breed you out of existence.

That's why when they see a pick up artist, they will sex them in no time whatsoever. Whatever happened to your "ideals" of prolonged courtship? That goes all out the door, and they feel guilty afterwards. That's what they all do. Or they don't feel guilty they start to just realize what it is they want, and become "victims" to their impossible desires.

They are unhelpful and they seem to be snotty! :eek:

All of them, it seems.

If you aren't "in" with the secret knowledge of the pick up artist they treat you like you're nobody. Even if there is nothing wrong with you.

I am done.

Every person, be it man or woman, wants perfection they can never reach. Just like the happiness trap book speaks of. Once they attain something, they want more, and will never be satisfied because they always want more.

So until I can become a pick up artist, I will suffer nonsense because I'm not in with the "in" crowd of the secret society of "alpha males".
 
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Havocan

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You're overreacting, calm down. Though it seems hard to gain girls that doesn't mean you're supposed to live in recluse like a hermit for the rest of your life. The more you try, the more skilled you become when it comes to attract the opposite gender. And that PUA stuff is in general mostly for guys who want to shag as many girls as they can^^.
 

no1

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You're overreacting, calm down. Though it seems hard to gain girls that doesn't mean you're supposed to live in recluse like a hermit for the rest of your life. The more you try, the more skilled you become when it comes to attract the opposite gender. And that PUA stuff is in general mostly for guys who want to shag as many girls as they can^^.

The problem is you can't get ANYthing without being a "pick up artist" or knowing "the rules of the game" and "have game" or are "perfect" like they want you to be. Not even a girlfriend.

This goes for men as well although men require a lot less than women do. Women want an overall perfection and men are content to have some flaws, hell even big flaws, just as long as someone loves them. Why this may be is because there are lots of lonely men who can't get anything. Women on the other hand have hundreds to choose from so they can be a whole lot pickier. Only the ones who can't get anything want to settle for less.
 
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SickJoke

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The problem is you can't get ANYthing without being a pick up artist. Not even a girlfriend.

Some guys are naturally good with women because they've had experience growing up.

Don't get discouraged man. Play the game of life
 

Havocan

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Yes you can. Before this term was introduced guys still got girlfriends without reading books or watching DVD's.
 

Riiya

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Wow, that other thread should've come with a warning: "Not for the easily brainwashed."

Anyway. I'm so tired of arguing. I'll have to agree with Havocan for now... until further notice.
 

rand0m_guy

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I think this thread was made in jest people...

If not, dunno what to say I guess. You can't be 'done' with them if you never got started though(?)...
 

SickJoke

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rand0m_guy said:
If not, dunno what to say I guess. You can't be 'done' with them if you never got started though(?)...

HAHAHA :D

no1 said:
my point is.. everyone wants perfection. Everyone is stuck in the Happiness Trap.

I mostly agree with you man. It's the human condition.
 

rand0m_guy

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I wasn't attempting humour. I actually thought he may have been messing around after the rather lengthy 'can't get a girlfriend' thread. People can have a mental disorder and still have a sense of humour y'know? :eek:

I'm 28 and have never had a girlfriend, have had/still got several mental health disorders, and can still find time to attempt humour. Thought he may of been the same. Possibly seems that that isn't the case now though.
 
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bleach

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Saying you're done with women is not very convincing, if you didn't care anymore you wouldn't need to even tell us anything. You are only trying to convince yourself that you don't need love and affection. Good luck with that but I'm sure you don't believe it either.
 

thor01

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Yeah I agree it is frustrating that it seems to be just skilled pick up people who seem to succeed at this. And that it almost feels like perfection is required. The fact its never happened for me makes me feel I can't be good enough.
 
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Satine

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The problem is you can't get ANYthing without being a "pick up artist" or knowing "the rules of the game" and "have game" or are "perfect" like they want you to be. Not even a girlfriend.

This goes for men as well although men require a lot less than women do. Women want an overall perfection and men are content to have some flaws, hell even big flaws, just as long as someone loves them. Why this may be is because there are lots of lonely men who can't get anything. Women on the other hand have hundreds to choose from so they can be a whole lot pickier. Only the ones who can't get anything want to settle for less.

No.1, would it help at all if you could read samples of how women feel about overblown, egotistical men? Try reading some of this: Psychotic Letters From Men. No, it's not full of paradigms of perfection who you won't be able to find fault with, these are examples that might just make you feel more comfortable about your own shortcomings, because we all have them, male and female, and you're at no disadvantage (except your own extreme self-doubt).

Take a read of it.
 

satstrn

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if you say youre done, youre never gonna have a chance....one of the main things girls are attracted to a positive attitude and a positive outlook...you don't have either it seems, so you are killing your chances before you even talk to a woman...keep this attitude, and yes you are done
 

Satine

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More to the point, can any men who read this imagine being with a woman who was pessimistic about everything? Who just brought you down all the time and never relented?
 

evie

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Judging by your negative beliefs about us, I think you gave up on women a long time ago no1.

You should definitely consider taking Shygirly's advice.
 
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