I think I just need a really good friend

MentalyBlind

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I think Im in need of a really loyal fun friend, I guess that why I talk to myself a lot. cause I can't seem to connect with others. im boring or so im told. but I don't feel boring, and the feed back I get from others is quite crippling. ::(:
 

Rawz

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Same here. I often think that I would be a lot happier if I had a good friend to spend a lot of time with. I talk to myself a lot since I don't have any friends.
 

Iluv

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Good friends are hard to come by. Just be the best person you can to yourself and hopefully you'll attract a true friend.
Through many upon many friends I have lost, I have one true friend out of the plenty I once thought I had.
But I hope you find one. :)
 

dyingtolive

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nice avatar, mentallyblind, lol.

i dont think anyone is really boring. i dont even mind being with a boring person.

i wouldnt mind having a good friend, only problem is... i often don't have time for others.. i procrastinate in dealing with people or talking to them.

But theres also a saying: some ppl add to ur time, some people spend it.

so, its hard to find a friend that adds to your time and u feel that u dont waste your time when ur with them.. just that i always feel like theres something else i need to be doing..
 

MentalyBlind

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yea I use to feel like that when I was a kid, just playing pretend and the day felt like a week, and the time I use to live in my head were the days when it wasn't ****ing me up with stress, worry, fear and all that stuff.

i miss being a kid. some times... I would do it all over again if i knew what i know now.

random: I think I should move some place warm all year round.
 

GhoulsNightOut

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Yess...I always think all it would take is just one person to show me unconditional love to make a difference, which would propel me to make all the changes I need to improve my life much quicker.
 

EscapeArtist

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Hmm I used to think I would never find a good friend again, but I did. This is how I did it: put myself in a group of people, to start. I found the only two (wonderful) friends that I have by putting myself in a group of people. One was a social anxiety support group, the other was a job-search group that went on continually for 6 weeks. These were the only two times in the last 4 years that I've been in a group of people, and both times I made friends despite the fact that I barely said a word or two. What I've realized is that, even if you barely communicate, people can be interested in you/you attract what you put out even if you try to put out nothing.

Remember though, that you do attract what you put out. I have found this to be true for both of these friends, their main qualities that we have in common are the exact things I was working on putting out more of at that time. So the more sides of yourself that put out, the more people you will attract in the end.

One of those friends had to basically force me to go out and hang out with them, lol, because I was so used to isolation and not getting close to people, for a whole year I only let him see me once a month. Until finally I got over the fear. There are people out there who can be that attracted to the very slight energies that you put out... that they will do all the 'hard work' haha. or at least until you're ready to
 
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Gidi

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i live in toronto and all I need is a good friend and I'll be happy but good friends are really hard to come by because 8 out of 10 of the people in Canada are social and don't understand people with sa
 
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