Srijita52
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So the study group I'm in are going for a picnic. My classmates and specially the teacher insisting that I should go.
Now the reason I don't want to go is, everyone has a solid group of friends here while I have none so I'm afraid once we're there everyone is going to hang out with their friends or bf/gf leaving me alone. Our group is mostly a very large outgoing group with a lot of loud, excitement loving extroverts in it. I can generally get along with them in a more controlled, peaceful situations but in this type of situations, chances are hight that they'll get on my nerves.
The reason why I think I should go is, its a good chance to face my fears, maybe I'm just overthinking and will end up having a good time, I want to get more comfortable with loud/crazy type of socializing and it seems like a nice opportunity, maybe I'll get closer to one of the groups a little more or get to meet some new people.
So I'm confused! They're going on Sunday and I've to let them know tomorrow so they can make arrangements accordingly. I can't make up my mind, what should I do?
Now the reason I don't want to go is, everyone has a solid group of friends here while I have none so I'm afraid once we're there everyone is going to hang out with their friends or bf/gf leaving me alone. Our group is mostly a very large outgoing group with a lot of loud, excitement loving extroverts in it. I can generally get along with them in a more controlled, peaceful situations but in this type of situations, chances are hight that they'll get on my nerves.
The reason why I think I should go is, its a good chance to face my fears, maybe I'm just overthinking and will end up having a good time, I want to get more comfortable with loud/crazy type of socializing and it seems like a nice opportunity, maybe I'll get closer to one of the groups a little more or get to meet some new people.
So I'm confused! They're going on Sunday and I've to let them know tomorrow so they can make arrangements accordingly. I can't make up my mind, what should I do?
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