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Old 12-11-2009
 

There is a girl I like and I want her to be my girlfriend. We talk all the time on the internet, in fact she talks to me more than anyone on online. In person with her friends, I am usually awkward, though I occasionally throw in some jokes or whatever. It's just had to find a way to include myself in a conversation and I don't know what to do.

I sat with her alone one morning just to try and get out of my comfort zone, but I felt awkward and I did most of the talking (surprisingly). When I brought up a topic she would just nod and smile. I even mentioned something about setting myself on fire because of how cold the weather was. I don't think she sits there in the morning anymore or I go to school earlier than her lately.

Any advice on how to make things better?
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Old 12-11-2009
 

You probably give off the impression that you're trying too hard and it definitely sounds like you're deep in the pits of the friend zone.
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Old 12-13-2009
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What do you mean by "make things better"?

take care. be well.

Bob
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Old 12-14-2009
 

It was a simple question...
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Old 12-14-2009
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If you can actually talk to her...maybe ask her to a movie? That way her friends wont be there, so it'll be some 1 on 1 fun Other than that not sure man...
Good luck
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Old 12-14-2009
 

well, lemme ask you this:

when you guys talk, what do you talk about?
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Old 12-14-2009
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When I brought up a topic she would just nod and smile.
Not a good sign IMO, need more info.
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Old 12-27-2009
 

Yeah i agree with the cat smoking a pipe, if she doesnt show up anymore, there is a chance that she doesnt want to be your gf. base on the fact she remained quit in the conversation you two were having.

Lets hope that is not the case at all
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