I dislike my image freneticly.

What do you think of your image?

  • I look abnormal

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I hate it

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I love it

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    2

Snaefridhur

Well-known member
good morning

I do dislike my image/appearance. I do not accept it, I would love be
some another person. I have no poularity among the opposite sex, and I
will never have any one, unless I will look like another way!


I do dislike looking in the mirror, watching my phothographs. I find my image somewhat abnormal, I think I am a bit similar to the Down Disorder ppl, or the autistic ppl. I worry if someone can think of me as of abnormal person.

good bye
 

loserinamailbox

Active member
I don't really know. I don't like it that much, there is much that I wish would change. But I get attention from members of the opposite sex a lot, especially older men in their 20's-30's. Random people just stare sometimes. I don't understand what is going on. I don't feel attractive or confident and I often feel very freaked out about random people staring. I wish I could just walk around unnoticed. I don't understand it. I often have to go to a bathroom and check to see if I have a mark on my face or if something else is very wrong about the way I look because I don't understand.
 

Some_guy

Well-known member
I like the way I look in general, but I still struggle accepting facial blushing
I have no poularity among the opposite sex, and I
will never have any one, unless I will look like another way!
Snaefridhur, your behaviour can be changed so that girls will be interested in you. And trust me that with the right behavior you can turn them on no matter how you look! Good thing is, it's something that can be learned. :)
 

loserinamailbox

Active member
Some_guy said:
Snaefridhur, your behaviour can be changed so that girls will be interested in you. And trust me that with the right behavior you can turn them on no matter how you look! Good thing is, it's something that can be learned. :)

Being female I will say that this is definitely true. Emotional/mental attraction can easily compensate for a lack of physical attraction. Easily.
 

SocialRetahd

Well-known member
Looks still matter. I always see great looking guys with NO personality with GREAT looking girls.

ALWAYS.
 

loserinamailbox

Active member
SocialRetahd said:
Looks still matter. I always see great looking guys with NO personality with GREAT looking girls.

ALWAYS.

But do the girls have personality? Probably not if they fall for a guy like that.
 

spikefan777

Well-known member
I'm half japanese and half german. I feel like a minority because practically everyone in my region in california is white. :( Since I don't have blonde hair and blue eyes I can never be considered hot.

I don't like looking in the mirror either. I look down when I'm washing my hands in front of a mirror in public bathrooms. :oops:
 

Fighter86

Well-known member
Funny how I saw this thread when I was just thinking about the problems associated with being unattractive, so I decided to vote and post. Voted for 'I hate it'. If I actually look attractive, much of my current problems would be non existent. I know the reasoning about how is it that attractive people hate being stared at, how it makes them nervous and all. Well, I would give anything, anything at all to be stared at appreciatively and be checked out by the opposite sex. But nope, ain't going to happen ever :(
 

haze

Well-known member
i think i look a bit below average although i have had a few people tell me i look beautiful its just a pity they were all gay men :/ but i don't really care about my looks.
 

Snaefridhur

Well-known member
spikefan777 said:
I'm half japanese and half german. I feel like a minority because practically everyone in my region in california is white. :( Since I don't have blonde hair and blue eyes I can never be considered hot.

It depends actually. I would not be hot there aswell, due to Californian taste haha (and rather due to any ppl's taste... :roll: ).

@haze - you are man or woman? It depends if gay men looked on you. :?
 

spikefan777

Well-known member
Snaefridhur said:
spikefan777 said:
I'm half japanese and half german. I feel like a minority because practically everyone in my region in california is white. :( Since I don't have blonde hair and blue eyes I can never be considered hot.

It depends actually. I would not be hot there aswell, due to Californian taste haha (and rather due to any ppl's taste... :roll: ).

@haze - you are man or woman? It depends if gay men looked on you. :?
Girl. Lol, gay men? 8O
Here's a picture of me with a friend. :wink:
winchester.jpg
 

rado31

Well-known member
are all people in california natural blonde or black? I didnt know.
You seem like a regular white girl,dont stick around gays if you want a bf, go out with a female friends. Gays are fun but they can irritate a possible men interested in you.
 

Lonelyheart

Well-known member
I dislike my image.

Overall, I'm dissatisfied with my appearance. I’m tall, dark, athletically built, have straight/white teeth, dress neatly, have a six-pack, and I always smell fresh and clean…..

BUT, I have a few blemishes on my face, occasional acne, and somewhat oily skin. This would be somewhat common if I was a teenager, but I’m 25 years old. I shouldn’t have any acne or blemishes. In my opinion, these flaws ruin everything else about my appearance.

Is it irrational for me to assume that ladies think I’m ugly because of these flaws?

(Ladies) Could you ever truly be physically attracted to a man who has a few blemishes, occasional acne, and moderately oily skin?

Please be honest!! Please be honest!! I would much rather find out here, on an anonymous forum, than in the real world. Remember, I’m not asking if you could fall in love with someone as ugly as myself; instead, I’m asking if you could think someone with the flaws I mentioned above is physically attractive.
 

SocialRetahd

Well-known member
The best way to find out your attractiveness is post your picture on hotornot.com.

I have hearing the most obnoxious reasons for being unattractive, such as, "I don't have blue eyes and blonde hair", or, "I have blemishs". You've never seen a model without blue eyes and blonde hair? Are people really this stupid, or are they looking for someone to reassure you?

I am unattractive for real reasons. My cheek bones are low, my lips are big, and my nose is oddly shaped.
 

little_fioritura

New member
Lonelyheart said:
I dislike my image.

Overall, I'm dissatisfied with my appearance. I’m tall, dark, athletically built, have straight/white teeth, dress neatly, have a six-pack, and I always smell fresh and clean…..

BUT, I have a few blemishes on my face, occasional acne, and somewhat oily skin. This would be somewhat common if I was a teenager, but I’m 25 years old. I shouldn’t have any acne or blemishes. In my opinion, these flaws ruin everything else about my appearance.

Is it irrational for me to assume that ladies think I’m ugly because of these flaws?

(Ladies) Could you ever truly be physically attracted to a man who has a few blemishes, occasional acne, and moderately oily skin?

Please be honest!! Please be honest!! I would much rather find out here, on an anonymous forum, than in the real world. Remember, I’m not asking if you could fall in love with someone as ugly as myself; instead, I’m asking if you could think someone with the flaws I mentioned above is physically attractive.


there was a guy in my class who was brazilian and he had pimples on his face alot but he still looked better then most of the guys in class or just in general. sometimes acne cant hold back good looks ok =) and thats the only negetive thing about you and you have all those positives so they cancel out that anyways rite?
 
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