I did it again

Earthcircle

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Once again, I offended someone online, and had a comment deleted. (Not here, but elsewhere.) I don't know how I do this, but I really am disgusting. I make myself sick.
 

S_Spartan

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Once again, I offended someone online, and had a comment deleted. (Not here, but elsewhere.) I don't know how I do this, but I really am disgusting. I make myself sick.
Don't be too hard on yourself. I find people these days are waaaay too sensitive. Also, some sites have moderators who really enjoy deleting comments and closing threads.

I was on a site once where the moderators banned the discussion of a certain non-offensive subject simply because they were tired of people talking about it. Any mention of the subject would result in deletion. I left that place quickly ;)
 

Earthcircle

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I turn 50 next month, but my behavior is so immature and pathological, people often think I'm a teenager. I was in psychotherapy for -- if you add it all up -- about 14 years. And with no progress. Everyone knows that if the patient fails to progress, it is the fault of the patient. An analyst confirmed this, telling me that I unconsciously identify therapists with my father. I also know that patients who fail to improve suffer from severe character pathology. It is sickening that I could be so old without making any progress. I could go on and on about how filthy and disgusting I am. One therapist even refused to work with me, saying that not many therapists would want me as a client. Hopefully, I will die soon and be completely forgotten by everyone.
 
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Heremit

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Once again, I offended someone online, and had a comment deleted. (Not here, but elsewhere.) I don't know how I do this, but I really am disgusting. I make myself sick.

If you are sure of this, don't do it again. Internet is a good place if everyone writes their opinion without offences.... Think a little more about the things you are going to say, before writing your posts. ;)
 

NathanielWingatePeaslee

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If you make comments on forums, eventually some of them will get deleted/moderated. It's happened to me before of course. Happens to most anyone.

What was the comment?
 

Earthcircle

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Someone posted a link to an article in French. They apologized for it being in French, which I thought was funny. So I wrote "How droll." I thought I was being clever, because "droll" is from the French. I was informed that I was insulting the poster. I guess someone could have responded to me saying "How troll." Anyway, someone on Social Phobia World did once identify me as a troll in a private communication. I guess I can't control it. It's disgusting.
 

Sacrament

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You sure are full of holiday cheer.

It's just a comment. Some message boards have moderators who love their little "powers" and deleting comments for the dumbest reasons. Why do you assume it's immediately your fault? You're 50, you know you can't enjoy life when you're so down on yourself all the time. Definitely won't help if you keep saying you're disgusting, and you're this and you're that. You're only making it harder for yourself, like running with perfectly fit jogging shoes and deciding to take them off just because. You need to change your attitude, otherwise anything you do that's taken the wrong way by someone else will keep making you feel like the worst human being in the world when the reality is that it was just a silly misunderstanding that simply doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.
 
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