richardashwagar
Member
Hi Everybody, I'm new to this forum and I want to share my thoughts:
(I am 16 years old)
The main problem I have is the inability to immediatelt think things up to say in conversation to other people. The hardest thing (and almost impossible for me) is to start a conversation that will continue for more than 10 seconds and is not completely meaningless (like:"Its really hot today", etc).
I find it extremely hard to do this and often my mind goes blank when confronting people I am unfamiliar with.
THIS IS the Question I have come to ask:
Is my condition (explained above) linked to shyness (the inability to think thing to talk about) and social phobia or is it just part of my personality???
I am also quite shy as well but the main thing that I want to work on first is this skill of thinking of things to say quickly...
Will the cognitive-behavioural therapy treatment help me overcome this problem or is it just designed for confrontations that cause anxiousness...???
Please reply back if you have any suggestions and I'd prefer it you stick with methods that don't involve Clubs or Support Groups that I have to join...
THANKS a lot for reading this and I hope to hear from you soon,
Thanks,
Richard
(I am 16 years old)
The main problem I have is the inability to immediatelt think things up to say in conversation to other people. The hardest thing (and almost impossible for me) is to start a conversation that will continue for more than 10 seconds and is not completely meaningless (like:"Its really hot today", etc).
I find it extremely hard to do this and often my mind goes blank when confronting people I am unfamiliar with.
THIS IS the Question I have come to ask:
Is my condition (explained above) linked to shyness (the inability to think thing to talk about) and social phobia or is it just part of my personality???
I am also quite shy as well but the main thing that I want to work on first is this skill of thinking of things to say quickly...
Will the cognitive-behavioural therapy treatment help me overcome this problem or is it just designed for confrontations that cause anxiousness...???
Please reply back if you have any suggestions and I'd prefer it you stick with methods that don't involve Clubs or Support Groups that I have to join...
THANKS a lot for reading this and I hope to hear from you soon,
Thanks,
Richard