I am boring.

Ren Koutaisou

Well-known member
This is a fact, not an opinion. I speak in monotone, I don't smile, and I'm not social.

I want to do these things, but I have trouble.

Any advice?
 

BlackKids

Well-known member
Id say that its just opinion. I think its a pretty common "symptom" of SA to feel like you dont have anything to offer/ your boring.

You just have to start been more outgoing. Finding a hobby should do the trick.

And Gemma your not boring, your lovely :) and sexy to boot
 

Lonelykitsune

Well-known member
heh same here,and the things i like no-one else does and the stuff they like i dont.so we find each othe3r boring.
 

Lea

Banned
I am sure your cat or dog will not find you boring :). And also, maybe it´s good at least learn not to be boring to yourself.
 

Ren Koutaisou

Well-known member
I wish I had a dog, but my mom doesn't want us to have one. I've already considered buying a puppy, but I can't until I move out of the house.

I've tried to be more outgoing, but I never ever know what to say, or how to say it. I'm thinking about learning how to flirt, that should help.

How can I crank up the communicative cog? That sounds promising, but I don't know what to do.

Most of my friends or associates talk about sex, which I never had, and I don't get girls anyway. Girls just laugh at me. Literally. It happened yesterday.
 

Hellhound

Super Moderator
Have you tried looking for people with the same interests as yours? That could help.

Most people who talk about sex, party, girls/boys and other superficial crap are usually unable to have a more intelligent conversation. They bore me greatly.
 

Ren Koutaisou

Well-known member
I like your avatar picture, Jake.

I can't really talk about what I'm interested in. I like food, but I can't cook well, and I don't go out to eat a lot.
 
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