Life has blessed me with apathy. But I'm not sure if you're complaining about a lack or an overabundance of it.
If a little apathy is what you lack, fear not. You, too, can learn to just not give a f
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Your friends think you need to get out more? F--- 'em! They're not you.
It's hot and you think you could use a shower before going out with your friends? F--- it! Real friends don't care if you're a little ripe when it's hot out.
You want to wear your sister's dress and a string of fake pearls to high school on Dress Up Day, even though you'll be changing in the boys' locker room for gym class? F--- it!
You know you're not a cross-dresser or a homosexual (no offense to those who are).
But beware! This attitude is best acquired a bit at a time. Too much too fast might lead to a lack of fear and trepidation.
On second thought, f--- it.