How do you react to this?

forgot_name

forgot_name

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When someone says something rude to you(if they ever have),do you bite your tongue,or give it to them right back? I usually bite my tongue,but i'm so sick of people and their rudeness, i'm NOT going to let people get away with it anymore! :evil:
 
abc1234

abc1234

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heres what i do i i bit my tounge and then sucker punch the fucker lol just kiding i usully do nothing and just let it go unless its something really rude then i let them have it
 
Horatio

Horatio

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usually I bite my tounge, if I don't then the perfectly formed come back in my head comes out as "Yeah, well your just a, yeah" or "S Sushu Shu Shutup, w w whwhat ddd-diddydiddydo youknow?"

isn't really very effective and usually makes the situation even more difficult for me
 
Boundless

Boundless

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Depends with who,some times i wont say anything,other times i go into full argument mode and destroy them verbaly! :lol:
 
Remus

Remus

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I've always given crap when people have given it me

when people give me shit me SA tends to go out the window :lol:
 
4myself

4myself

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Depends how I'm feeling at the time, I respons differently depending on my mood. Sometimes I choose to ignore it, other times I make a joke out of it, or point out something good about myself or whatever is being criticised, sometimes I just say that I dont want to hang around someone who is so rude and disrespectful and then I walk away.

Forgot_name, it is great that you are not going to put up with people being rude to you anymore. I had that problem when I first came here and I recievd good advice from the people here. I had to make some decisions to break off 'friendships' with some people in my life, but I feel so much better emotionally for it. How are you planning on dealing with the people in your life?.
 
LittleMissScareAll

LittleMissScareAll

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it depends on my mood and what is said...sometimes i'm in an extremely bad mood anyway so i'll say something back...and other times i just hold it all in.
 
4myself

4myself

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Just out of curiosity, how often does everyone get put down?. I think that I am getting put down constantly, but when I stop and think about it, most of it is only what I think that people must be saying about me or thinking about me. I understand that this is a major symptom of sp, so I am curious as to the ratio of real put downs vs imagined put downs.
 
LittleMissScareAll

LittleMissScareAll

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I'm put down quite often...probably not quite as bad now as I used to be though...when I was a kid people put me down CONSTANTLY. I think people are scared of me now, so they dont say as much mean things now...but I still see myself as fat & ugly because that's what I was told all the time when I was a kid. :evil:
 
4myself

4myself

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Makes sense to me littlematchgirl, you dont need other peoples garbage in your life as well.

I can relate to what your saying too LittleMissScareAll, I think even if no-one else said any bad thing to me ever again, I would still have bad self esteem.
 
silverwolf

silverwolf

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When people are rude to me I can't just shout back at them I have to beat the living shit out of them. i used to say nothing and they just walked all over me I hate people they're so ignorant.
 
dawnknight

dawnknight

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when someone is rude to me, I usually just say "oh" then give them a look that says "I pity you." peppered with sarcastic shock that anyone would think of being so callous. They almost always come back to apologise for not thinking and being rude.
 
Frozen_tears

Frozen_tears

Member
People sometimes make comments and say i am rude, cold, distant etc.
but i usually just bite my tongue. It makes me so angry though. I want to scream at them "do you think i want to be like this?!". People can be so ignorant. Most of the time i just get ignored and cos im the-wierd-one-who-never-speaks. People can be so ignorant though. I know its hard, but they could at least TRY to undertsnad why im so quiet.
 
silverwolf

silverwolf

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yes people always make comments to me like 'u are a boring person', 'u don't get involved in any activities', 'what a loser'. When I was in school I remember that kids would hit me in the head and throw things at me because I sat by myself and was too afraid to hold my ground This is because they don't understand and of course now I fight back because I am not prepared to let people hurt me in this way.
 
miraculousmum

miraculousmum

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Sometimes I ignore it, then feel really bad afterwards for not sticking up for myself, and then I think of all the things I could or should have said.

Sometimes I answer back, but never with anything effective, my hearts racing way too fast for me to even think clearly, then later on I regret saying what I said because it made me look stupid.

Basically I lose either way.
 
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