IcarusUnderWater2
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noblame4 said:That used to get me too, but then my therepist taught me this neat little trick, most people dont like to be dazzled with conversation. They like to do all the dazzling. All you have to do is smile and nod and throw in the occasional question to keep them talking, and when they're finally finished, they go away thinking, "My! what a great conversation!" This works pretty well with guys, I imagine it works wonders on women.
bleach said:I feel your pain, buddy, believe me..
The worst part is when you actually take that step and initiate contact, and you can read the interest on her face, and THEN the fear and panic takes over as you realize that you have to hold a real conversation with her without awkwardness, and the pressure of that scenario is way more than you can even tolerate to make eye contact. So you stalk off, defeated and shamed. And that's the point when I usually start drinking heavily.