KiaKaha
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I have been thinking about this recently. I try to be friendly (more often it comes across as polite because I am too shy to be friendly, but I do try ) but I cant find the right balance between being friendly and confident. It seems that if you want to be confident you have to almost... be selfish and not think about others. I want to be both, friendly AND confident, but I dont want to appear as a jerk, because thats not me, and it would just make me feel bad. But I want to be respected and taken seriously...confidence is also key when it comes to dealing with women too..
So I dont know, what are your thoughts on this? Is it possible to be a confident, while being a nice friendly guy at the same time? If so how....I am eager to hear any tips...cheers!
So I dont know, what are your thoughts on this? Is it possible to be a confident, while being a nice friendly guy at the same time? If so how....I am eager to hear any tips...cheers!