How can i make it better? please help

My girlfriend of two years has just gone off to manchester uni, i didnt go to uni this year so im still at home in sussex. We used to talk on the phone everyday for an hour, but now shes gone all we can manage is 10 minutes, shes always really short with me and whenever i ring her and she gets another phone call she will tell me she'll ring me back and sometimes put me on hold. She isnt cheating on me, i didnt think i was the jealous and possesive type but i seem to be getting like that. She always puts me down with snide comments, my friends tell me to walk away but i just cant, when she is nice, shes the best person in the world, but when shes mean shes the nastiest.

Can you giv me any advice on how i can make this better? How i can get my relationship back on track? i dont want to loose her but i cant go on like this for much longer, im getting extremely down about it. I'll be happy one minutue, then recieve a phone call from her, get in a fight and that'll be me in a shitty mood. I dont want to be like this!

Your friends are pretty much right, but not in so finite a way. You have to try and give her space. She doesn't want to talk to you? Then stop calling her and put the ball in her court. A lot of women only respond to that sort of evasiveness, and a lot of them are turned off by neediness. What's important now is to show her that you can have fun independently of her. If you can show her that you've got other things on the boil and that you're not waiting around for her to ring you, she'll start getting curious. Then when she does call, keep it light, friendly, with no resentment. Be cocky, be funny, and know when to hang up (preferably first). Tell her you've got plans so you're not sure when you'll talk again. By doing things like that, you spark attraction by causing just a bit of friction and unpredictability, and too many people kill this sort of thing entirely by being too easy-going. It's a bit of a cat and mouse game, but it's really no fun to be on the wrong end of something like this. Good luck.

I think you should just be real about it, man. From what I can tell from the actions you have written about her, she doesn't want you anymore. That is very bad, considering your feelings for her. But you are still alive and kicking. As long as that's the case, you will eventually meet someone new. 8)

Cheers for the advice mate. Kinetik tried doing what you suggested it worked wonders, am still trying to play it cool though, dont want it to go back to the way it was. Its weird now cos i feel that if we were to split up it wouldnt be the end of the world cos i think we would remain mates