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Old 09-20-2017
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An interesting read

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...et-away-murder
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*speaking into tape recorder* Note to self: lose weight before you kill your step father.
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*speaking into tape recorder* Note to self: lose weight before you kill your step father.



imagine someone being like "i'd fvcking KILL you!......If I was better looking"

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You know you're grown when you catch yourself reflecting on the benefits of a quality vacuum cleaner.
Vacuum cleaners? For me it's the benefits of opening up a 401k at my bank, I keep putting it off.
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Just another, noisy-as-f*ck, dumb, c*nt of a day
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I'm feeling really cheated and it makes me upset. Had a busy day at work and a sore throat /cold to go with it. Sick of a partner than only cares and can only think and give to himself.
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Feeling frustrated (& pissed-off) at my almost-100% lack of women-contact. It's like women don't like me & i'm the biggest loser in the world, amongst the various types of guy losers (my "complete loser" type of loser is not listed as i'm SO BL**DY RARE!!! )

And the fact that i've NEVER had even ONE SINGLE DATE, with an ATTROCIOUSLY UGLY woman, let alone sex or a relationship, makes me feel like the BIGGEST LOSER EVER, and a COMPLETELY PATHETIC, 100% F*CK-UP of a human being, like the world's never seen before!!!!!!!!!!!

AT THE GATES (AT WAR WITH REALITY) F*CKING RULZ!!!!!!!!!! YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!

(gee i'm glad i haven't got a gun, lol)
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Stressed. Suicidal. Want my family outta my life. Trembling with rage. Ready to snap. Afraid that if the latter happens I'll kill someone.
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Stressed. Suicidal. Want my family outta my life. Trembling with rage. Ready to snap. Afraid that if the latter happens I'll kill someone.
There is this co-worker of mine whose sheer presence makes me ready to snap. It's my fault since I tried to ignore his constant passive-aggressive comments and let all that negativity pile up. I should have just confronted him when I had the chance, but I convinced myself it wasn't worth it. Nowadays we don't even contact (not even for professional purposes), but I still feel bitter whenever he's around.

I can't imagine what I'd do if I had to live and communicate with someone I felt this way towards.

*Breathe in, breathe out*
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There is this co-worker of mine whose sheer presence makes me ready to snap. It's my fault since I tried to ignore his constant passive-aggressive comments and let all that negativity pile up. I should have just confronted him when I had the chance, but I convinced myself it wasn't worth it. Nowadays we don't even contact (not even for professional purposes), but I still feel bitter whenever he's around.

I can't imagine what I'd do if I had to live and communicate with someone I felt this way towards.

*Breathe in, breathe out*
I hate passive/agressives with a passion.

If you've got something to say, then man-up and say it. And then the inevitable "What? You're crazy!" reaction when you finally confront them... man, oh man I can't stand that cowardly shit.

If my anxiety-riddled *** can speak-up then you have zero excuse not to.
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Feeling both lucky and unlucky.

On one hand I am about to start my semester at one of the most prestigious colleges in France, on the other hand, I don't have any girl classmates, we're like 12 students in my class mostly Asian guys, I've made friends with them, but looks like I'll never have a girlfriend that easily.

I dream of that day when I'll tell a girl "I like you, we should be dating", and she'd reply "Ok, why not!".
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And then the inevitable "What? You're crazy!" reaction when you finally confront them... man, oh man I can't stand that cowardly shit.
This is exactly why I avoided confrontation. I'm fine with discussing things/trying to work things out with people I know I can have an honest conversation with, but I highly doubt my co-worker is that kind of person.

I'm not going into details, but I believe I have more than enough reasons not to trust this person and I'm quite confident that all I'd have accomplished in confronting him would be getting angry. On the other hand, it also sucks keeping things in your chest. I guess that's why I vented here.
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Old 09-22-2017
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Do i not even deserve to have my CURIOSITY sated (ie to "try it out" myself)
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This is exactly why I avoided confrontation. I'm fine with discussing things/trying to work things out with people I know I can have an honest conversation with, but I highly doubt my co-worker is that kind of person.

I'm not going into details, but I believe I have more than enough reasons not to trust this person and I'm quite confident that all I'd have accomplished in confronting him would be getting angry. On the other hand, it also sucks keeping things in your chest. I guess that's why I vented here.
Yeah, you're probably doing the right thing; you can't outdo these types.
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I need help!? Aye, cuz I'm not the one making everything about myself and getting mad as f*ck n' shouting whenever someone criticises me. Ya f*ckin' tampon!
(Stuck-up cu...)
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There is this co-worker of mine whose sheer presence makes me ready to snap. It's my fault since I tried to ignore his constant passive-aggressive comments and let all that negativity pile up. I should have just confronted him when I had the chance, but I convinced myself it wasn't worth it. Nowadays we don't even contact (not even for professional purposes), but I still feel bitter whenever he's around.

I can't imagine what I'd do if I had to live and communicate with someone I felt this way towards.

*Breathe in, breathe out*
Unfortunately for me, it's my family whom I have this exactly same feeling with. Don't even like being in the same room as them, which is why I keep to myself. Cuz even at the slightest criticism they will all freak the hell out.
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Old 09-22-2017
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Feeling frustrated (& pissed-off) at my almost-100% lack of women-contact. It's like women don't like me & i'm the biggest loser in the world, amongst the various types of guy losers (my "complete loser" type of loser is not listed as i'm SO BL**DY RARE!!! )

And the fact that i've NEVER had even ONE SINGLE DATE, with an ATTROCIOUSLY UGLY woman, let alone sex or a relationship, makes me feel like the BIGGEST LOSER EVER, and a COMPLETELY PATHETIC, 100% F*CK-UP of a human being, like the world's never seen before!!!!!!!!!!!

AT THE GATES (AT WAR WITH REALITY) F*CKING RULZ!!!!!!!!!! YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!

(gee i'm glad i haven't got a gun, lol)
I know exactly where you're coming from because I'm in the same situation as you. I'm turning 31 years of age this Sunday (24th), I've never had a date either or an actual relationship. But it's also a good thing because I don't like to be touched by other people, I'm just not comfortable being hugged or held near another human.

At least you haven't been with a girl just because she is using you to make her ex jealous (I haven't but it's a possibility). That's a shitty situation to be in.
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Old 09-22-2017
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I feel like my ex technically raped me when we started dating but don't know how I feel about it. Wish I would have done something different.
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I feel like my ex technically raped me when we started dating but don't know how I feel about it. Wish I would have done something different.
literally or figuratively?


if it you mean literally then maybe you could press charges.
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literally or figuratively?


if it you mean literally then maybe you could press charges.
Yes literally but it happened back in 2012 I think. It's really confusing. I feel like I could have done more to stop it.
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