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# watch stuff together
watch a Netflix or Youtube while having a chat feature open. So you can talk about stuff during or after the show.

# listen to music and Radio Together
you listen to music on youtube or go to a radio like 8 Track.

# play music together

# learn stuff together
join a class together like learn anther language or how to code and make video games together.

# earn money together
Go into a online business together. You can do thing like write a blog or a novel. Or make a video game Together.

# write Together
Roll Playing Have anybody hear ever tried roll playing . I never did but saw text example of it and from what I seen I am convince you can write a novel that way.

# Browse Websites Together
like on same surf

# play game together
You two have the same console and same game well play together online. You can also go to facebook games.
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Yeah, I used to watch TV and movies and play games with a girl I was aѕѕ-over-teakettle for.

After that didn't work out I quit it, though. Maybe a game of online scrabble or pool here and there, but that's it.
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I've played games with people but sometimes would rather play on my own because I hate to voice chat.
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I used to play online games 5 years ago like Battlefield 3 and World of Warcraft with my online friends.
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i think playing video games is a waste of my time unless it's a really fun online game. i'd rather meet up with someone who has social anxiety/phobia like me that i like and can relate to, it's a social thing that i 'like' to do and i wouldn't be so lonely but I'm planning on doing other things instead of being here now as there's hardly anything to reply to now and i need to get ahead in life.
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i think playing video games is a waste of my time unless it's a really fun online game. i'd rather meet up with someone who has social anxiety/phobia like me that i like and can relate to, it's a social thing that i 'like' to do and i wouldn't be so lonely but I'm planning on doing other things instead of being here now as there's hardly anything to reply to now and i need to get ahead in life.
But won't you miss some people on here?
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Hang on - there's a chat box on Netflix ?? That's pretty cool ��
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But won't you miss some people on here?
I will always miss the people who have been nice to me or nice to be around. i think i would come back if there were things to come back for. i don't think i have left yet.
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i don't think i have left yet.


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I'll definitely miss the lily-isms.
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I'll definitely miss the lily-isms.
Me too. She entertains me a lot! She's wonderful & delightful
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# watch stuff together
watch a Netflix or Youtube while having a chat feature open. So you can talk about stuff during or after the show.

# listen to music and Radio Together
you listen to music on youtube or go to a radio like 8 Track.

# play music together

# learn stuff together
join a class together like learn anther language or how to code and make video games together.

# earn money together
Go into a online business together. You can do thing like write a blog or a novel. Or make a video game Together.

# write Together
Roll Playing Have anybody hear ever tried roll playing . I never did but saw text example of it and from what I seen I am convince you can write a novel that way.

# Browse Websites Together
like on same surf

# play game together
You two have the same console and same game well play together online. You can also go to facebook games.
Does watching porn together with a girl count? It's really fun.

No.

I don't play any instruments.

Interesting idea, but no.

Definitely not.

Sure, lots of times. Who hasn't? I mean the RP stuff. Never cooperatively written anything remotely worthy of publishing.

Duh.

Yep. Quite a few times. In fact with peeps from SPW here we used to play scrabble and drawing games. *sigh* :/
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. i'd rather meet up with someone who has social anxiety/phobia like me that i like and can relate to, it's a social thing
I would try finding a website that has a filtering system like joining a dating website for friends. To be able to find people in your location more.

still remember website is not the whole internet and the internet does not represent the whole world. The way I see it now is the internet is more for staying in touch instead of finding someone to get in touch with now.

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I'm planning on doing other things instead of being here now as there's hardly anything to reply to now and i need to get ahead in life.
I remember when I made the same realization as you. I enjoyed starting out here because I find alot of people who relate to me. But after a while I find out that being with people like me had its pros and cons. I left to for some relief but came back as after a while I started to feel the same way as I did before I join the site. That is feeling like your the only person in the intire world with social phobia/anxiety.

Don`t forget that is a site about social illness. We do sometime get rude because we feel we been treated that way or we fear we are going to be treated that way So we must do it first.
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Does watching porn together with a girl count? It's really fun.
I guess so it a movie is it not ???
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Sure, lots of times. Who hasn't? I mean the RP stuff. Never cooperatively written anything remotely worthy of publishing.

I never Roll played before. I don`t know How you get started. And I still feel a little confused on what going on there. But I think with a little editing you probably could make it worth publishing. I read sometime a RP forum and it feel alot like I am reading a novel.
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I guess so it a movie is it not ???
He meant prawn.

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I have a police dial on my head lol..

- a little cautionary tale from me. If others here know my story, I used to frequent a BDD forum back 10 years ago and was messaged by a guy who lived in another state to me. He made me feel good about myself and encouraged me to fly over to his place. This was entirely out of my comfort zone as I had severe social phobia and agoraphobia at the time. I even had phone phobia severely. He helped me with that at the time and I started to feel confident for once. I was even terrified of males then. I had never been on a plane neither, but from his persuasion and my confidence I ended up getting on a plane and flying over to meet him. Needless to say, it went bad and I was emotionally and sexually abused. I was incredibly naive for obvious reasons. All the signs where there, but I saw them differently to what they were. Anyways- that was the past and Im a better person today because of it. But im just saying - know your instincts and question a persons motivations as that was something I didnt do.

I mean nothing about online thingz - just if you meet someone you dont really know online - take precautions.

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^I recently went on a road trip and met several people I'd known only online for several years now. I'm pretty sure this was the first time I'd met people in person from an online forum.

I was horribly anxious at first but the whole thing went really well. It wasn't anything sexual--these were people I knew from gaming forums. It was at a convention, which is obviously very public. I plan to go again next year.

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