I still like hearing it, though.
Interesting story. Even when your own wife tells you you're sexy, it's hard to believe. Unfortunate about the ending to that story. I bet that shattered even more of your confidence.true story...
it was 2004, i was 40 years old
no one had ever told me that they thought i was good looking until my second wife
she kept insisting that i was, and that other women thought i was
having trouble believing her, i posted an old photo of myself on "hotornot.com"
to see what sort of reaction it would get
i chose an old photo - from when i was in my early twenties - because i was curious to see what girls may have thought of me back then, when i was single and available. i wasn't worried about what anyone else thought of me in the present, because i was happily married
however, my wife assumed that i was posting my photo in an effort to meet and hook-up with women online
i tried to explain, but she could NOT believe that i didn't know how attractive i was or that i had such little confidence and such a low opinion of my own looks
why? because she had a low self-image and lacked confidence in the fact that i found HER attractive and wasn't interested in any other women - even though i thought she was beautiful and loved her with all my heart
there is no moral to this story - or happy ending, i'm afraid
she left me for some other guy
i don't even think he's as good looking as i am
Interesting story. Even when your own wife tells you you're sexy, it's hard to believe. Unfortunate about the ending to that story. I bet that shattered even more of your confidence.
People who are dating you or are interested in dating you have to say you're attractive, otherwise it would be like admitting to themselves that they can't get someone who is actually attractive.
I don't believe i'm attractive, and i don't believe the people that have told me i am really think it, it's just a way of comforting themselves.
People who are dating you or are interested in dating you have to say you're attractive, otherwise it would be like admitting to themselves that they can't get someone who is actually attractive.
I don't believe i'm attractive, and i don't believe the people that have told me i am really think it, it's just a way of comforting themselves.
I don't believe i'm attractive, and i don't believe the people that have told me i am really think it, it's just a way of comforting themselves.