Has anyone ever been in love or had someone else fall in love with them?

chrisjurban

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I just notice that for me, the fact that I barely say anything makes it hard to anyone to fall in love with me, and that I tend to be too nervous to give enough of myself to actually fall in love.
 

IGotSeoul

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Yes, I was stripped of all reason and logic from the moment I saw her to the moment she left.

The worst was trying to make sense of it all. :rolleyes:
 

Feathers

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lol of course

I've fallen in love with a guy over the internet :) And had lots of crushes otherwise, in RL too... And sometimes we dated or were just friends, sometimes it was maybe-love or what I thought could be love if we let it time to develop..

I've had guys fallen in love with me (or so they say) sometimes I never really believed it completely though.. (Sometimes they told it to my Dad years later - lol! :)) It was more like infatuation or crush mostly, I think..

So it happens, even if you're shy..
There may be a ton of girls in love with you or having a crush on you, and you might not even know it!! :)
 

gummy bear

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yup

she ruined me

im heartless and cold now
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sad thing is im still completely in love with her


Mate, I know what you mean. It's the same for me, all except the last part. I've had a breakthrough though... I realised that someone who treats me so badly isn't worth my pain let alone my love. Hope you find the same answer for yourself soon.
 

fife_girl

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yup once, had other girls say they were in love with me after a very short period of time but i ended things with them.
the girl i was in love with (few years back) was a compulsive liar and she made my SA alot worse, was heart broken for ages after but im sooo much stronger now and even though it nearly killed me at the time im glad it happend cause im so much stronger for it and single so some other lucky girl will end up with me!!!!....LMAO...hmm
 

Outer_Senshi

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Yes, but I'm such a stupid person sometimes :-S

I've met some guys that actually had fallen in love for me and I messed up. I liked them, they liked me but I couldn't show them that I was interested. There were two that said they didn't understand me or thought that I was playing with his feelings.


I just avoid them ou run away when things start to work out. I'm a total disaster and I'm still feeling guilty for letting one special boy go away :-(
 

AGR

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only once,some people have fallen in love with me,but they were not my kind of girls,so nothing turned out of it.
 

slowmotiondaydream

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yes, the best 3 years of my life till she went with someone else. now it's hard to fall back into love again with anyone because in your mind you think you want it to be as perfect as it once was but no one can leave up to that expectation :( (this is was happens in my mind every single day) i miss love
 
I've had several women interested in me before, but I just push them away. I've been told sometimes that I'm just too picky... Never fallen in love before, but I'd love to do so.
 

Mokkat

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Im a very sad panda.
I've always been infatuated with having crushes on girls, even though I always knew there was only a slim chance they would like me back - IF I ever mustered the courage to talk to one of them.
The one time I actually told the girl, was recently when I didn't tell her outright but hinted it strongly, until she turned me down. Thinking of her made me less depressed, but after she confronted me, I was as depressed as ever. - And it didn't help at all when after some months of accepting it, I find out that she's seeing a guy in my band. The guy is 100% outgoing, good-looking and can get any girl he wants, and I cant stand half of his stupid humour. They went to school together, so I guess that helped him. On the other hand he is really friendly, and when we play and I choke up from depression or give him a mean stare (intentionally or accidentally) I get a little bad conscience from it.
Miserable:S

The one time a girl actually had a crush on me, I was too mentally invested in another girl. It was a Chinese girl who had gone alone to a festival. I think she was a shy and reserved person like me, and I think she got a little attached to me because I spoke to her, held her umbrella for her and such (for convenience, it rained 110mm in that festival week).
We didnt have much in common and she was a very serious person compared to me and my group of friends. Also I was afraid to let go of my safe-zone fantasizing about that other girl I knew. She couldn't have hinted that she wanted a relationship with her, any more than she did, but I was afraid to make a move on her, afraid that we would be too different, afraid that I would neglect her with my avoidant tendancies, afraid about being too poor to go visit her, etc.
In hindsight, I regret it alot. Its another thing about my life I am ashamed of.
I got very sentimental when watching the "Welcome to the NHK" anime, I wonder why... ::(:
 

Sinar_Matahari

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Yes to both. It's one of the greatest feelings in the world! One goes through a rollercoaster of emotions. The best thing is when two people are crazy in love with one another. It's intense and overwhelming. So much that it makes some people afraid to be in love again even if they are dying to experience falling in love.
 
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userremoved

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Yes to both. It's one of the greatest feelings in the world! One goes through a rollercoaster of emotions. The best thing is when two people are crazy in love with one another. It's intense and overwhelming. So much that it makes some people afraid to be in love again even if they are dying to experience falling in love.

"To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides"-David Viscott
I imagine it's an amazing experience. Much more rewarding than anything sex has to offer of course.
 

coyote

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Yes to both. It's one of the greatest feelings in the world! One goes through a rollercoaster of emotions. The best thing is when two people are crazy in love with one another. It's intense and overwhelming. So much that it makes some people afraid to be in love again even if they are dying to experience falling in love.

Especially if it ends badly.

Even though it was beautiful - it's difficult to risk that kind of pain again.
 

Sinar_Matahari

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Especially if it ends badly.

Even though it was beautiful - it's difficult to risk that kind of pain again.

Yes, exactly! When it ends badly it's utterly devastating and just the thought of making oneself that vulnerable again....Still, being in love gives you such a high and when you know that the other person feels the same about you, you feel like you're on top of the world. Even that doesn't adequately describe the feeling.
 
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Yes to both. It's one of the greatest feelings in the world! One goes through a rollercoaster of emotions. The best thing is when two people are crazy in love with one another. It's intense and overwhelming. So much that it makes some people afraid to be in love again even if they are dying to experience falling in love.

Hmm.... I just don't believe in such things.. I look at loving couples and wonder if they'll love one another five years down the road when the bills stack and the passion dims...

That said though, I've seen a VERY old couple in their maybe seventies still holding hands like they really love one another... soo....
 

Outer_Senshi

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Yes to both. It's one of the greatest feelings in the world! One goes through a rollercoaster of emotions. The best thing is when two people are crazy in love with one another. It's intense and overwhelming. So much that it makes some people afraid to be in love again even if they are dying to experience falling in love.

Couldn't agree more. I think that in most times, fear wins the battle.
 

coyote

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Yes, exactly! When it ends badly it's utterly devastating and just the thought of making oneself that vulnerable again....Still, being in love gives you such a high and when you know that the other person feels the same about you, you feel like you're on top of the world. Even that doesn't adequately describe the feeling.

unfortunately perhaps, my desire for physical intimacy inevitably propels me forward into the fray
 
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