lifesnotfair
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its true, it seems that gay guys seem to have more women attracted to them than i can get.. what does this say???
gay guys have better relationships with women than i do
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lifesnotfair
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what i am worried about is that i am straight, and no girls talk to me, or want anything to do with me, but yet, if i were gay, they would be interested in me..
lifesnotfair
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and what exactly does work to get women to notice you?? well i don't think it matters because most women are coupled up already.. so its just a big waste of time
avid_merrion
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Its because gay guys are comfortable in womens company because there is no sexual tension or interest where as if there was men around it would be a different story.
Toad
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heh...ive never been in a relationship, so being myself sure doesn't get women to notice me, but if someone can't accept me for me, then i don't want anything to do with them. Sadly i would agree with you that women are more effort than they are worth to me :? sorry women...lifesnotfair said:
lifesnotfair
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well i have given up.. there isn't that many single women out there..
guys have to fight even for the bottom of the barrell chicks...
guys have to fight even for the bottom of the barrell chicks...
Girls aren't going to fall in love with gay men. We might be initially attracted to them sexually but I, for one, could never BE with a guy that is just as feminine as I am. I like a masculine guy, and I'm not talking about appearances. My bf is kinda small and has a high pitched voice, but he is masculine guy. One of the things that attracted me to him was that he gave me a huge smile the very first time we met and just started talking as if I was an old buddy of his. He was so genuine without being dark or scary.
Another thing, it's more common for guys to hit on girls than girls to hit on guys, even if we have an interest in a guy. So if you are sitting around waiting for a chick to be all over you, it just won't happen. You have to make the effort.
Another thing, it's more common for guys to hit on girls than girls to hit on guys, even if we have an interest in a guy. So if you are sitting around waiting for a chick to be all over you, it just won't happen. You have to make the effort.
lifesnotfair
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the root of my problem???
JoeRandomUser
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lolgrumblina said:lifesnotfair said:
Sounds like we've found the root of your problem
I think what she's getting at is that you're viewing women as objects (or targets), rather than people.lifesnotfair said:
lifesnotfair
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well doesn't matter how i think about them. they don't like me, and i don't like them
JoeRandomUser
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That sounds like a recipe for loneliness if you ask me...lifesnotfair said:
I don't know, man. You asked why it was that women are attracted to gay guys and got some responses from some of the ladies here. They explained to you that the reason they LIKE gay guys is because they feel that gay guys are non-threatening, and pointed out that perhaps it's your attitude towards women that's causing you trouble. You can take this advice (which is good advice, mind you -- for all guys, myself included) or you can ignore it and stay lonely. It's your call.
I understand that you're frustrated with the situation, but at the same time I think that if you're going to ask for advice you've got to be willing to listen when people offer it. Sometimes that even means taking a good hard look at your life and identifying areas you can work on. If you're not prepared to expend at least SOME effort in changing, then I don't think you can expect things to change for you. I'm sorry, mate; but that's just the way things are.
SPECTACULAR
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Sure it's hard as hell, but I still have hope:
One day, that strange, uncommon, rare lady will knock on my door askingme out..
anyone wanna share me the dream?
lifesnotfair
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i have taken advice given on here, and NOTHING.. so i don't know..
my attitude doesn't make a difference when women are all hooked up and the ones that are single, just basically write you off.
my attitude doesn't make a difference when women are all hooked up and the ones that are single, just basically write you off.
