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So, to keep it short..We are two strangers happen to be in the same team playing an online game..
I am in a relationship & my partner also playing this game & in the same team as mine..
The feeling started when my partner get annoyed by some members & quit the game while I continue playing & getting closer with the members..
One of the guys caught my attention & we were chatting on line apps ever since..
I mean we created the account to connect with the whole members but we get closer day by day..
The thing is I have never met him, never knew his name, never heard his voice but I tend to grow fond of him..
And it is messing with my head at the same time I have this joyous feelings that are hard to explain..
We are not flirting when texting but I kept staring at my phone waiting for his text!
There is nothing serious going on but the game requires us to protect all of the members & the guy is super protective & it is hard for me to ignore his existence..
So actually I posted this thread not looking for an answer, I just need to let it out of my chest since nobody knows about this but myself..
I cannot even let my partner knows because he is one jealous dude..I know I am flirting with someone else but I know it leads nowhere..
So I am pretty sure our relationship will not be affected..
I just want to enjoy this crush / flirting moment to make me day brighter..
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I know you're not looking for some kind of answer or advice, but maybe the reason why this other person makes you feel the way you feel is because your relationship isn't doing so good?

On the other hand, even people in relationships like validation and feeling wanted. However, feeling giddy while waiting for the other person to text you is worrying. How would you feel if that were happening with your boyfriend?
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My guess would be the relationship isn't doing so good.
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I cannot even let my partner knows because he is one jealous dude..I know I am flirting with someone else but I know it leads nowhere..
So I am pretty sure our relationship will not be affected..

My guess is this is a big part of the thrill. You're doing something in secret that you know is taboo in the relationship. There's a thrill to that but if you look deeper, I think like others have stated, there's probably some kind of deficiency in the relationship that's causing you to need a thrill from elsewhere. Is your partner not attentive enough to you? That's a huge relationship killer.
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