First Kiss

AlbinoZombie

New member
My first kiss was when I was 15. It was in a museum, and I was completely embarassed. After that I couldn't kiss anyone for a long time until a guy surprised me and it wasn't as bad as before. I'm still incredibly afraid of being inexperienced though, and I could never initiate a kiss. I think the best thing for a guy to do would just be to ask, or to kiss her by surprise. The anticipation is the worst(best?) part.
 

ozkr

Well-known member
Lonelyheart said:

What are you trying to tell us LonelyHeart? Is Timmy in trouble? :p (I just thought it was funny ,but don't worry, I understand how you feel)

I used to be eager to kiss someone when I was younger but I slowly started to be afraid of the idea of kissing a girl... I'm 20 and I feel like a complete idiot because I haven't had a "serious"
first kiss and I feel like girls will see me as a loser or a creep because of that. Of course, I wouldn't advertise that, but if I was ever going to kiss someone ,that someone would find out the truth sooner or later and ... I don't even want to think about the consequences.
 

pookie

Member
i had a boyfriend when i was 15(just for a week) but we never kissed. I'm 20, and i've never been kissed, and have never been in a real relationship.
IT SUCKS :oops:
 

Dreamer_15

Well-known member
my first kiss was when i was about 12 i think. well my proper one anyway. it was ok, nothin special coz the boy wasnt anything special lol, theres no right way to kiss, it just depends on what your into really, but yup nice n slow is good :) and to the people who havent kissed yet, dont worry! theres a first time for everything and yours will come soon enough, remember, everyones had a first kiss at some point :D
 

mienaino

Well-known member
Never have. Probably never will.
Not by choice really, but I probably will never be a billionaire either.
Some things are just not meant to happen.

Sors salutis. ;)
 

ozkr

Well-known member
mienaino said:
Never have. Probably never will.
Not by choice really, but I probably will never be a billionaire either.
Some things are just not meant to happen.

Sors salutis. ;)


*sigh* I feel the same...
 
yeah dont know if anyones said this, but i think most people would be flattered if the person they were going to kiss has never kissed before, and you are their first kiss
 

virtue

Active member
i was luckey with my first kiss,i was 17 at a party and this cute girl just jammed her tounge down my throat like the whole night,gave me a chance to get used to it i guess, the worst thing to do is get really drunk and kiss a girl like your the fricken king or something, cause ya find out later you were pretty much just slobbering in her mouth, and after the first kiss next step is the boobies :) just do it!!!
 

jayo

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The guy who thinks if a girl is interested in you she won't mind if you're inexperienced is well off the mark!

If you're in your twenties, she'll be amazed at how innocent you are.

She'll also make conclusions on your lack of social interaction and your emotional immaturity.

Wouldn't we if the shoe was on the other foot?
 

coriander1992

Well-known member
jayo said:
The guy who thinks if a girl is interested in you she won't mind if you're inexperienced is well off the mark!

If you're in your twenties, she'll be amazed at how innocent you are.

She'll also make conclusions on your lack of social interaction and your emotional immaturity.

Wouldn't we if the shoe was on the other foot?

if you were reffering to my earlier post, then i'm a girl. (sorry if you weren't)

This post just shows how little you know... :roll:
i don't think that is fair at all, and it sure as h*ll isn't accurate :roll: :roll:
 

MelissaQu

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maggie said:
hi Student1....i don't know about everyone else..but, for me..i would rather be with a man who was inexperienced...and willing to learn with me....than to be with someone who slept with every woman who was in his path of possibility....no matter what age...and as far as the kissing thing goes..it's whatever feels nice :wink:

Well said!

I can say this because I'm older now but I realized that I felt the same way you did when I was much younger. Looking back I realize how adorable it all was, being nervous, worrying if I kissed well, etc. Most girls like gentle guys anyway. If you find a girl who looks a little on the demanding side, I'd steer away from that just for the time being.
 

jayo

Well-known member
Coriander - I wasn't responding to you - it was a comment on the first page from someone else.

But given that you have come back to me I will come back on your comment.

If you're telling me that women in their 20s and 30s look on men (or vice versa) who haven't kissed a girl as anything other than hopeless losers then it's time you woke and smelled the coffee baby!!

It's not right I know but that's the way the world is....
 

coriander1992

Well-known member
jayo said:
Coriander - I wasn't responding to you - it was a comment on the first page from someone else.

But given that you have come back to me I will come back on your comment.

If you're telling me that women in their 20s and 30s look on men (or vice versa) who haven't kissed a girl as anything other than hopeless losers then it's time you woke and smelled the coffee baby!!

It's not right I know but that's the way the world is....

oh well, you're entitled to your opinion i suppose...
 

Emma

Well-known member
I wish to god that I have never let some stupid little guy kiss me...if I hadn't been such a wimp, I would have said no....like eww, my skin crawls now....why did I like him? even though I knew he was a gaywad?
 

Regnier

New member
!!

Well if it makes you feel any better I'm 22 and i've still got no idea what the hell i'm doing, I usually end up lying there with my mouth :(
 

hotsauce

Member
coriander1992 said:
jayo said:
Coriander - I wasn't responding to you - it was a comment on the first page from someone else.

But given that you have come back to me I will come back on your comment.

If you're telling me that women in their 20s and 30s look on men (or vice versa) who haven't kissed a girl as anything other than hopeless losers then it's time you woke and smelled the coffee baby!!

It's not right I know but that's the way the world is....

oh well, you're entitled to your opinion i suppose...
Its true they dont care nor understand peoples situation because they have only ever experienced their live sof for example their first kiss aged twelve not still nervous at age 16 etc.

There are ones who are different but they seem to be few and far between.
 
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