Do you hate your personality?

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Vecis

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I hate my aggressive, pushy and lazy part in me. I wish I could be a lot more peaceful and content with others. But I am working on it.
 
Silentknight

Silentknight

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No even though I don't have alot of friends I'm always referred to as the quiet one by people who don't know me and even though I long for a relationship with someone special but know that the chances of that are slim to none I wouldn't change who I am. My AvPD has taught me to appreciate what little interaction I have while at same time fear it. A normal person will walk down a street see some pretty girl smile at him he'll smile back and just keep walking and forget about it. Me and maybe other social phobics will have the same girl smile at them and that will stay with us for a week it'll brighten up our entire day I like that about my personality I'm appreciative something most people aren't.
 
mummylala

mummylala

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I dont hate it, other people do though, i used to let that bother me, but its there problem so i let them deal with that on there own now :)
 
coyote

coyote

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Bama_Heath said:
I'm not sure if I hate it or not. I guess mainly because when I'm myself I am always too random and funny for people to handle or something. They just act like I'm the weirdest person they have ever met. I have to 'act' a certain way to gain acceptance. So then I tone certain things down and accent others. Or sometime I will go into turtle mode and just be the 'shy/quite guy'.
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Yeah, this is right on.

I hate feeling like I have to put on an act to fit in with people around me.

I'm feeling pretty good these days, because I'm comfortable enough with the people I work with to basically be myself most of the time.
 
SociallyAwkwardAndShy

SociallyAwkwardAndShy

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I love my personality. I just come off as kinda of quiet or weird when I don't know you. Once i get pass all of the awkwardness. I can be very bubbly and even dare I say it... "outgoing" lol. I just wish it didn't take me so long to show it. I wish I could always show this confident outgoing side. I am getting there though.
 
bitingthepea

bitingthepea

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eugh me to. I wish i had a more positive personality and have a laugh
I get edgy when people give me comments, i should feel happy not all clammed up
 
MrJones

MrJones

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popolala said:
No, i dont like my personality much. This is because im tainted by the badness of this world which influenced my mind, thinking and concience.

I used to love my personality even though i was shy .. which was my weakness but overall i was happy with who i was because i love being a nice person. I would put others first before myself and this makes me happy, because i feel good to be nice, i had self-respect, i do not do things i dont believe is right, i was caring, humble, hard-working, and i had good thoughts. I was just everything i choose to be, except i was shy, but then that gradually got better. this was over 7 years ago, the now me is different. I wish i was that person again, she was so innocent and mature. but the now me, is so immature, i shouldnt had change, i wanted a taste of what ignorance felt like, which is why i am what i am now.. wrong move.

The reason why i am braggin about my old personality is the reason i am not that person anymore. because the person i was, wouldnt brag, because she is not a show off. which is why i like that old me so much. she had good thoughts which is why she communicated better, It was natural for her to think quickly and choose word wisely because she puts others first, this is why she can detect emotions quickly.

I do realise there are people out there who can also communicate well but is not a nice person, but i didnt talk like them and i can normally tell them apart.

the now me cannot detect people's emotions well, it gotten worst as the years go by, i cannot sense what people are feeling or how i should say something to not offend people. It used to be natural for me to know what to say because i can automatically imagine if it was me, how would i feel, so i responded the way i wanted to feel. This is not me now.. i dont think i can ever change back to being her again, but i can still be the best i can with the ability i have now, even if im not perfect.

It would be a lie, if i did said i love my personality... because if i did, i wouldnt be here.
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What was the thing that changed you? I'd love to see the old you :)

Everybody can change and you were once something you like. To be the one you once were is a big step but it totally worth it ;)

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As for me, I have my pros and cons. I try to be positive.
 
Ashonym

Ashonym

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I can relate well to a lot being said in here at times, but I personally fear I may not even have a personality at all anymore. I feel like a chameleon, either trying to pretend to blend in or just staying away altogether. I never have anything witty to say and can't hold a conversation very well either. Personality?... yeah.
 
Shant

Shant

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I'd be better off if I had a personality to hate. I can't be certain of how my true personality is, because it changes so much.

Some aspects I'm happier with than others, but I don't have a single definable personality I could identify. That's not to say I have multiple personalities, but rather a single unstable personality. If that makes sense.
 
BlueDays

BlueDays

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I don't hate my personality, just the problems that have formed in my thinking. I was not born with these irrational/extreme thoughts. They are not a natural part of my personality.
 
thegunners21

thegunners21

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Yes, very much so. I hate that i am not able to come up with anything funny or interesting most of the times. Whatever i find funny, the majority thinks the other way.
 
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Most of the time. I am no fun, and when I am fun I feel like I'm annoying. and I have trust issues and can't connect with people until I've known them for a long time. So I come off as a bitch, even though I may actually like the person.
 
Error

Error

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Me too. I don't like how I behave. I may be too self-conscious, but I think I am ugly inside.
 
popolala

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MrJones said:
What was the thing that changed you? I'd love to see the old you :)

Everybody can change and you were once something you like. To be the one you once were is a big step but it totally worth it ;)

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As for me, I have my pros and cons. I try to be positive.
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Thanks Mr.Jones! :)
 
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