Do you hate when people are laughing?

Kamen

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Me - yes. For example, if I am near a cafe and I see and hear them laughing. Or at a restaurant (haven't been in such places for an year). Although I would hardly enter such a place, it is even more disgusting when there are noisy people who are laughing, especially young people (they generally laugh more than the others). I hate this mostly because:

1) they break my peace;
2) they remind me I am different and don't belong to them as more serious and gloomy compared to them;
3) there is increased possibility they could start laughing at me.

Maybe I am a misanthrope to some degree...
 

faithnomore

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Thats the kind of jerk that i'd avoid in somewhere like a pub.
 

Rodox

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hate it for reason
3) there is increased possibility they could start laughing at me.
 

worrywort

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yea sometimes.....often when I see people laughing it makes me think, "wow, look how much fun other people seem to have....they all seem so normal and happy and free.....why aren't I like that?"

but then again everyone's different right?....I like gloomy people!
 

DannieCleo

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the thing i hate is when they try to appar as though they are laughing at you, even though what they are laughing about has nothing to do with you (teenage girls, i'm talking to YOU!) eg a group of them are walking down the street talking/whispering then burst out laughing as soon as they get to you. some will even surreptitiously look at you. ( i live near two secondary schools. i know wherein i speak!)

I also hate when people are overly loud. They want all eyes on them and to be centre of attention.

I also hate those who exageratedly laugh long and loud at a joke that wasn't even that funny.

I guess those extroverted want to be centre of attention types are totally opposite to us, hence why we dislike them and they dislike us.

Or perhaps we notice it more, the same way someone may have an annoying habit. You can't understand how something someone does can irritate you and not others. Because it is contrary to your nature/habits you notice more when others do it and it irritates you more
 

Eledee

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I can see where you are coming from, as I was bullied at school so I initially fear people are laughing at me, but sometimes I find it a real release when I hear laughter too. Because it reminds me that laughter is sometimes something which is missing too much in my life...i tend to take things very seriously.

xo
 

DannieCleo

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don't get me wrong. i am not a Mr. Burns "ban christmas" type scrooge lol

i just don't like when people use it as a tool to intimidate or gain "look at me, arn't i fabulous" attention.
 

lonerforever

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the thing i hate is when they try to appar as though they are laughing at you, even though what they are laughing about has nothing to do with you (teenage girls, i'm talking to YOU!) eg a group of them are walking down the street talking/whispering then burst out laughing as soon as they get to you. some will even surreptitiously look at you. ( i live near two secondary schools. i know wherein i speak!)

I also hate when people are overly loud. They want all eyes on them and to be centre of attention.

I also hate those who exageratedly laugh long and loud at a joke that wasn't even that funny.

I guess those extroverted want to be centre of attention types are totally opposite to us, hence why we dislike them and they dislike us.

Or perhaps we notice it more, the same way someone may have an annoying habit. You can't understand how something someone does can irritate you and not others. Because it is contrary to your nature/habits you notice more when others do it and it irritates you more

Very well said and your comments are spot on! That's what I feel as well! I wish those loud extroverted people didn't laugh towards us for no reason since it's just like bullying and I don't find it funny at all! This is why I don't make friends with extroverted or loud people and just make friends with those quiet, but smart and decent people like my few close friends!
 

LoyalXenite

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I definitely relate! I'm always worried (paranoid) that Im the subject of the laughter, and then the annoyance for the loudness or just that people are able to be bright and happy when Im miserable as all hell. But I also get a deep longing, I wish I was one of the bright happy people..

Its rather like the meme that went around ages ago :giggle::bigsmile:
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theoutsider

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The only time people laughing bothers me is when I'm at work, stressed and I hear my co-workers laughing it up and having the time of their lives. It's like they're totally oblivious to my suffering. But I don't really blame them, it just annoys me.
 

Sacrament

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I think feeling that way comes from an insincere place. You don't really care if people are laughing, but that little voice inside of you is telling you things like "they're laughing at you", or "they're in a good mood and you're not", or "they're so easily sociable and you're an anxious idiot".

That sort of thinking will poison you, and you alone.
 
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FriendlyShadow

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Most of the time I don't mind it, but I hate people who laugh extremely loud. Like when you're in the same room with them and they're talking to someone and then all of a sudden they let out this big hoot of laughter. I'm probably the only person at work who gets easily annoyed by it.
 

MichaelB

Active member
hmmmm.... Its good question. People laughing everywhere and sometimes its too loud. Its really embarassing for me and sometimes I started laughing with them, but I dont know why...
 
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