Do people think it is funny?

Dodger

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Do it seem like other people think the way you feel is funny or a joke or even that they enjoy seeing you feel that way. To me it almost seems like that. People know who I feel but they do not seem to care they joke with me even though they know it bothers me and they also come in my dorm room and touch my stuff because they think the way I react is funny I guess. I just do not understand what is so funny about having to feel so down about everything all the time. I just want to feel that someone out there likes me.
 

Dodger

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I have yeah, because I was telling them they way the treat me really bothers me. and They said that it is how they treat everyone else so they should not have to change the way the act to for one person. I really feel that if other people treated me better everything would be easier.
 

GloomySunday

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One of the measures of human intelligence is the ability to show compassion and understanding to others. People who behave unkindly display a basic immaturity and an inability to deal with others different to themselves. Don't feel badly about it. They are the ones who will lose in the long term. Like attracts like. People who behave like inconsiderate idiots end up being surrounded by inconsiderate idiots. Walk tall and don't let them get to you. In some future time that you can't even conceive yet, you may have the last laugh...and some decent, understanding friends around you to share it.
 

Dodger

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GloomySunday said:
One of the measures of human intelligence is the ability to show compassion and understanding to others. People who behave unkindly display a basic immaturity and an inability to deal with others different to themselves. Don't feel badly about it. They are the ones who will lose in the long term. Like attracts like. People who behave like inconsiderate idiots end up being surrounded by inconsiderate idiots. Walk tall and don't let them get to you. In some future time that you can't even conceive yet, you may have the last laugh...and some decent, understanding friends around you to share it.

I understand what you mean, I guess, thing is though I just wish I did not have to feel like this. I wish it was just easier to talk to people. The I know if I met a wonderful girl I would be happy but I just can't have enough courage to say Hello to a girl.
 

joeljjison

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GloomySunday said:
One of the measures of human intelligence is the ability to show compassion and understanding to others. People who behave unkindly display a basic immaturity and an inability to deal with others different to themselves. Don't feel badly about it. They are the ones who will lose in the long term. Like attracts like. People who behave like inconsiderate idiots end up being surrounded by inconsiderate idiots. Walk tall and don't let them get to you. In some future time that you can't even conceive yet, you may have the last laugh...and some decent, understanding friends around you to share it.

I don't have SA. I'm just me. A combination of factors. A shy misanthrope, who is occasionally snappy when pushed.

Nothing is funny about it at all Dodger. They're assholes, and you are better than them.

They're excuse is hilariously stupid as well, and is proof of what i just said. How they treat everyone else is inconsiderately and uniform, without bothering to take into account their character. Fine they shouldn't have to treat you differently, because you have SA. But they shouldn't make jokes that bother you because of who you are, and enjoy causing you problems.

I wouldn't treat you differently. Your a human just like me. The way I see the world, I'd see your characteristics and treat you accordingly. If your a nice person thats it. SA or not. For example, if someone is jumpy, and hates frights, and you have nothing against them you don't creep up on them.

This is common sense to me. Therefore people like you describe are not worth understanding. They don't bother to understand. Just condemn them. If you hate people, when they bother you, it makes you angry instead of sad. Anger lends you power... maybe.

My opinion is bizarre. Not sure how much you should trust it. I hope there is something there for you.
 

Some_guy

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Do the same stuff to them.

IMO teasing is often a part of friendships, be it with guys or girls.

Don't take it personal and do the same to them ;)
 
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