disclose SP to partner?

Need some advice please.

I'm in a new relationship with someone i had known for a while. i feel that my SP is making me quite self-conscious now that im in a relationship and i was wondering should i tell my boyfriend so then he will understand me better - that i do care about him but find it difficult to express this at times?

what do you think?

Hi Eledee

yes, tell him. don't make a big deal of it but do mention it. if you are in a relationship with someone it is important to be open and honest. if he can't accept you for who you are then you are better off with someone else, anyway. if he is officially your boyfriend, he has probably already caught on by now that you have shyness issues. so it shouldn't be a big surprise. no big deal.

Thank you both for your advice. I know you're right that i should tell him when it feels right...i suppose i just wanted some way out. revealing some sense of 'weakness' doesn't feel great, but i know he will understand- and your right-im sure he must have pcked up on stuff by now!
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